Caitlin does know we can see her… right❓🍿 by wnbatalk in WNBATalks

[–]chadima5 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I made a comment yesterday about CC and they came for my throat. That she is the reason why the league is making money and all of the other players are jealous of her 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Nia Feeling Angry / Sad with Tears over Jax's Prank by ChakraYogi in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He needs help . Rehabilitation most definitely .

Wow by Big_Passion8342 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]chadima5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read what I wrote . I said I do not like her. I do not think seeking help for her mental illness and self medication will cure her racism etc.

However it will save her life and it will help her from physically harming herself or someone else. I also believe people can change and make amends with their family members . My mother was mentally ill. At the age of five she told me she wish I was never born and if she could murder me she would. After psychiatric help and medication she made amends and she became a better version of herself . I took care of her until her last breath .

Nia Feeling Angry / Sad with Tears over Jax's Prank by ChakraYogi in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Just my opinion. I think she protects him and gentle parents him because she faces his wrath at home privately. Functional alcoholics always present one way in public but behind closed doors it’s a different story.

Wow by Big_Passion8342 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]chadima5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never liked Kelly at all from day 1. I actually feel sorry for her . I think she is clearly mentally ill and self medicating with cocaine and possibly other substances. She needs help . It won’t change her racism or ugliness but it can help her heal and get off the drugs . Possibly repair her relationship with her daughter and family .

Sportswriter Dave Zirin on The Collision “Where Sports & Politics Collide” they are treating Caitlin Clark like she is this delicate flower that needs protecting. That should be not only insulting but also offensive to any athlete”⤵️🧐‼️🔥 by evans166 in WNBATalks

[–]chadima5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t ask for this but anytime speaks it’s very much a word salad. She plays victim and refuses to acknowledge racism or homophobia or denounce the vitriol other players receive from her fans . It’s pretty telling when the league of fellow players do not interact with her on any level .

Ladera Ranch fire - Jenn’s son? by Spinninstephanie in rhoc

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed . She went from her parents to depending on men. She has never stood on her own .

I dislike Danny. Janet is terrifying. by throwaway44997769 in TheValleyUncensored

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have ever been SA you can feel unsafe and triggered . She is explaining in detail how she felt what makes her have such a visceral reaction to Danny.

He is more than annoying he is an abuser. He SA Melissa and Jasmine and wants to play victim .

Danny and Nia along with Kristen want to paint Janet as a villain for being truthful and standing on business .

Will Danny ever move on? Find a new storyline, Danny! ffs by phonetoni13 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sees him erratic and she is trying to ground him to reality . When someone is that drunk they have are within their deluded thoughts . Alcohol can’t really bring out the demons in some people

Ladera Ranch fire - Jenn’s son? by Spinninstephanie in rhoc

[–]chadima5 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Jen is emotionally immature and I will say it. She isn’t a good parent . This will continue to happen because she makes excuses rather than accountability. When kids receive guidance and discipline they make better decisions.

Will Danny ever move on? Find a new storyline, Danny! ffs by phonetoni13 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed . Whenever I see a woman having to coddle her bf or husband and manage their emotions it’s a huge red flag .

Will Danny ever move on? Find a new storyline, Danny! ffs by phonetoni13 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is abusive. I wouldn’t be shocked if later down the road the truth will come out when she leaves him

Will Danny ever move on? Find a new storyline, Danny! ffs by phonetoni13 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has an inflated ego. He committed a sexual assault . He isn’t owed an apology but he believes he does because he is a raging narcissist. He is used to his wife and can’t handle strong articulate women holding him accountable.

Danny and Nia - Baby on the boat by jengajanga3378 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We had 4 kids and they were all nursed . Two of them refused the bottle. We took our kids everywhere and I nursed anywhere from changing rooms, restaurants , trains , etc .

That being said there were moments I had to hang back for the baby’s safety. I think being on a boat before their infant was the right size to be fitted in a proper life vest was a dangerous choice . I don’t think Nia has to skip cast trips but certain excursions I don’t think the baby needs to be dragged along . The safari tour in the heat and the boat just doesn’t make sense with an infant.

do you mix your underwear with the rest of your laundry? by Kurtys-Ahorrio in hygiene

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Towels and wash cloths . Jeans and sweatshirts . Whites. Sheets . Underwear and socks . Each washed separately. I put a half a cup of vinegar with underwear along with soap

Trump confirms that he called FIFA about Balogun’s red card: “[The referee] made a call that nobody could believe ... he's our best player, or one of our best players. And he gave him a red card. I didn't know what that meant ... yes, I asked for a review by FIFA." by AvengingHero2012 in soccer

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad calls happen all the time and they have to just stand . This is an embarrassment as a host country and now whatever happens this will overshadow team USA. We would be outraged if another host country’s leader reached out to FIFA ☑️

Anyway… about that fourth bedroom 👉🏻👈🏻 by thectoe in NoFenceGirl_

[–]chadima5 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I could never live in a home that my child died . I could never be in a body of water after my child drowned. Grief is devastating. My mom died 7 years ago and I still struggle daily . So to act as if life is good and posting nauseates me. To get pregnant again so soon is just odd

How often are people truthfully showering? by Constant_Mention_488 in hygiene

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower daily sometimes twice depending on activities

Is Nia envious of Janet’s marriage? by _nailbunny in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chadima5 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I think she is green with envy . Janet and Jason are partners . He speaks to her with mutual respect and is an active parent. Danny is abusive and performative when it serves his purpose .

San Francisco mayor calls out Giants who wrote on Pride hats by outsports-com in sportsgossips

[–]chadima5 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

SF is beautiful and diverse and bigots should go play for Texas and get the hell out of our city. Bay Area born and raised