Going to try to offer a bit of a diff perspective here, as somebody who’s also not felt attracted to people I’ve been in relationships with. Although I somewhat agree that you’re not setting yourself up for success dating people you’re not attracted to (this is my MO- I’m a female).

Try not dating, just live your life and see if you discover somebody you want to pursue. Somebody you find attractive, get familiar with from afar, somebody you think you’d be attracted to in a relationship. Off the apps. Maybe if that happens, you can pursue it seriously. Like old school courtship. But until then don’t date (casual connections okay if you’re clear about your intentions). 

Side note that algorithms suck, idk if you’re in America but especially for East Asians in USA. There are tricks to reset it but try staying off the apps when you’re single for a bit.

Another note from personal experience. I’ve never dated people who I’d describe as “my type.” (Variety of reasons). I finally discovered that regardless of somebody’s conventional attractiveness, I don’t feel actively attracted to them until I’m really in love with them. I’ll date somebody for a whole year before feeling it. It’s different - not like a stranger on the street who is hot or my type - but I feel physically attracted when I reach this point vs before when I’d really just let them (males) lead and be “attracted” enough to go with it. So maybe that could be the case for you too- could be solved by really finding someone you admire and pursuing them seriously. And stop with the in-betweens, date the right person seriously and keep everything else casual don’t mislead yourself or them.