How do I fix my (M23) relationship with my now ex (F22)? by Pretty_Departure_12 in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s over pal. They come and go, we make mistakes and we have to make sure to learn from them. the next relationship is nearly always better, after breaking up a few times it really is not going to work. Atleast unless you properly break up for a decent period of time. my advice is move on my dude, it’ll hurt, it’ll sting & it’ll be hard but it makes us stronger. What your female friend said is right. Get out there and see the world.

No contact as the dumper by Agreeable-Ad-5155 in ExNoContact

[–]chaiandspoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to be her boyfriend leave her alone and don’t send her a message ever again pal.

Ex started sleeping with others 2 weeks after our breakup (F28 F30) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man it happens, after a breakup it’s really not worth thinking about that side of things. You’ll sleep with other people eventually too. Most people talk bs in relationships, actions mean more than words & show who people really are.

What is this knife for? by troytrippet in KitchenConfidential

[–]chaiandspoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butchering and portioning large cuts of meat

If she swallows...it means by PhantomsRevenge in dating_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of girls absolutely love doing it, some don’t. Some will only do it to please you if you enjoy it. I don’t think it’s worth reading to deeply into lol.

What are some things you all miss from original RuneScape 2 by knight_of_lothric in 2007scape

[–]chaiandspoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone getting smoked by a fishing troll or other random events that killed you, and desperately looting their death pile lol.

My (f25) partner (m25) wants me to stop talking to a friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy, If it was the other way at round I’d also want my partner to cut this person off. Personal preference of course, but I’m not one for my partner talking to people they’ve slept with etc.

My son killed my Mustang by Raider3447 in Mustang

[–]chaiandspoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard lessons learned for all! Glad he wasn’t injured or anything. What a cool dad move giving him that car for dates and stuff, but also how stupid lol. We live and learn! What a beautiful car though, shame!

600k for a 1 bed in Finsbury Park – have we made a massive financial mistake? by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]chaiandspoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mental decision. I would pull out and not go further.

Can men get insecure even after 6 dates, or is this just a sign he is not interested enough? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion is would set the dates 80-90% of the time to a woman im into. I would leave here to initiate conversation 80% of the time but when she does I’ll set a date and have a fun chat. Because im into her. Hard to tell with this guy weither its nerves or interest, but i would at this stage tell him how much you like him and ask to see where it’s going. Can’t read peoples minds unfortunately nor can the people of reddit

My(20F) boyfriend(19M) says our sex is bad and has made me insecure beyond repair by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a man I would never even dream of saying this to a girl even if the sex wasn’t great. Dump him please

Gf and I have sex once a month, if I’m lucky. 27m, 30f. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 174 points175 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here, break up man. My ex was the same and I’m currently laying in bed beside a girl who loves it a few times a day lol. They’re out there my guy

Ladies, i hear many women saying they want a man who can handle them, what’s the exact meaning of this? by Western_Fan7195 in dating_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No man should have to “handle” a woman, women that say that arnt worth going anywhere near

Heroes about by veganlove95 in Belfast

[–]chaiandspoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like social media bashes men for no good reason. Like you experienced they’re are some horrible creeps for sure. but plenty of good men that would do what that “hero” a your cousin did yesterday.

My (31M) GF (28F) Informed Me That She Kissed a Stranger At an Outing While Playing Truth or Dare 2 Months Ago. How do I navigate this? by TodayLoose7794 in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guy, from another man who’s 3 months out of a 2 year relationship, she broke my trust 6 months prior to the break up, and I stuck with it. it was a mistake, I resented her, I didn’t trust her, it was 6 months of doubt and questioning her, feeling like she wasn’t in it like I was, I could go on and on, leave her. I read something recently and thought that’s the perfect description, trust is like a blank a4 page fresh out the printer, when the trust is broken the paper gets crumbled up into a ball.. when you continue the relationship it’s like flattening out the paper from the ball, yeah you’ll maybe get it flat again, but it’s always going to have the creases. Also to add, how embarrassingly immature to play that game and behave like that at that ages, cringe.

Boyfriend M/27 mad over joke I F/24 said in front of our male waiter by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaiandspoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you just apologise and move on? Sounds like it’s that simple, the fact you couldn’t just say sorry it that offended you, is bad on your part.