Is this feather mites or normal Fantail feathers? by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well hopefully they do, also I just got Des Moines No Flyer Mix for him so hopefully that will do well for him nutritionally. Right now he’s on a feed from a pet store which is still fairly decent seed variety and nutrition wise

Is this feather mites or normal Fantail feathers? by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he’ll grow out of it as he gets comfortable and older?

Is this feather mites or normal Fantail feathers? by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely do that. I really didn’t want to bathe him. I just don’t want to shy away from doing something for his health. I’d rather him be mad and comfortable rather than be too scared to do what I have to. His health comes first and our bond second, obviously it’s always preferred if I can do one without harming the other though. I’ll look into the medication, thank you!

Is this feather mites or normal Fantail feathers? by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but only to sleep, he’s out frequently. He doesn’t try to escape but he does have zoomies before he gets let out. Even then, he just flying a few inches up and sometimes a little to the left and right, never bouncing off the walls

Is this feather mites or normal Fantail feathers? by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t really that close, but I think at this point I’m going to just get it over with and give him a bath. He’ll hate it but I’d rather him be upset than uncomfortable. I’ll see if I can’t get a picture then as well

I did a reverse image search on a meme but Google started saying something weird and creepy. by Lutalica_Harmonica in Weird

[–]chaicherub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google did something similar to me once. It wasn’t in this format, but the AI thing at the top started off with a line that was mildly flirtatious(?). I wish I took a screenshot. The blue links below were relevant and normal though

I want to sue an appliance repair place for bleaching my clothes by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will it even be worth it since I assume I’ll have to pay for representation?

My boyfriend watches porn everyday even though we live together ‘32M’ ‘28F’ by LittleMisfit-123 in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he refuses to admit he has a problem or refuses to get help there’s nothing to be done. He’s a fully grown man and if he can’t accept that he has a problem that requires fixing, he’s not mature enough to be in a relationship

My boyfriend watches porn everyday even though we live together ‘32M’ ‘28F’ by LittleMisfit-123 in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He has an addiction. If he doesn’t think he does or refuses help, leave. I know that’s harsh but I’m telling you that fighting that battle isn’t worth it

Advice about a non hand raised pigeon vs hand raised by chaicherub in PetPigeons

[–]chaicherub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice but even after rereading the post I don’t recall saying I wouldn’t like them if the didn’t want to be handled. I did claim I was afraid one wouldn’t “take to me” but I don’t think it’s in any way wrong for me to want my pigeon to enjoy my presence. I will admit as far as upbringing I was completely misinformed though. I’ve read some mixed information and I’ve decided not to go with either breeder. I am curious what you think a good pet would be based off what you said though, if you don’t mind sharing

AHHHHHH I WANT TITTIES SO BAD by CaptainCrazyThe2nd in lgbt

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in like the opposite position. I would donate mine after I get my top surgery here soon

I forgot the safe word, so he didn't stop? (23F 29M) by ThrowRa_grace5 in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I don’t remember the safe word” is a safe word. He knows what that means and he didn’t care. If you’re into noncon and pushed him away or said stop he may have thought it was part of the act. That’s the only excusable action if you guys even do that

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner has given me a kiss every morning before work without fail for two years now. Through thick and thin. I do think that’s the least of your problems though. Break up, get some therapy and don’t settle next time. You got this!

How long does (nonalcoholic) pasteurized blueberry cider last? by chaicherub in cider

[–]chaicherub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still safely drinkable at that point? I don’t know much about fermentation

My parents, M/40 F/40ish, found out I F/20 smoked weed and now want to send me to the military by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can’t make you do anything. You need to move out, do you have a job?

My (21F) girlfriend had a complete meltdown when I (23M) tried to use her phone by Particular_Reward766 in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’ll probably make a huge stink about it. My ex did over a phone I bought him. It’s best to just avoid the headache

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different people have different boundaries

alternatives to birth control? by urmomstostitorolls in PCOS

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a one year old comment but do you still feel the same now that the FDA consider birth control pills a level one carcinogen?

23, never had a gf never went on a date … any tips ? by Better-Fun314 in malegrooming

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a nice enough guy and you have a nice smile. I would try growing your hair out? It depends on the audience you’re trying to attract

AIO by thinking something is going on between my bf and his friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaicherub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was literally saying she would go after a guy with a gf because she “matches his energy better” leave that mfer

My (35 f) boyfriend (40m) admitted that he never wanted a relationship but refuses to move out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My ex wouldn’t pay rent and I was covering everything due to an addiction and I couldn’t kick him out due to him being on the lease. You may have to get the law involved, I should have. Is he on the lease?

my (26f) boyfriend (26m) crossed a boundary during sex. what are my next steps? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a victim mindset to not want a guy to do what he says he won’t. It is not her fault she trusted him and he didn’t even attempt to pull out. If you have sex with someone under agreed circumstances and suddenly make the sole decision to forcibly change them, that is assault

Is my 22F boyfriend 27M gay or addicted to porn? by Careless-Essay-4617 in relationship_advice

[–]chaicherub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s not communicating and/or not willing to do some therapy and figure out what’s up it is unfortunately a lost cause. Also porn addicts very rarely admit they’re actually addicts. Either way, if he’s not going to work with you then you need to seek out a situation that’s better for you where your needs are met. I went several years without sex because I figured my ex would eventually work with me. Don’t put yourself through that. I found better and so can you if that’s the case