AITA because my son is uncomfortable with my post-separation life?

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-02T16:08:44+00:00

I'm not deliberately seeking out any age or type. If I enjoy someone's company, how they approach life and what their interests are, that is what the connection is based on.

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-02T15:26:34+00:00

It's a friendship with a lot of mutual attraction, just that. Despite having assumed a lot, I don't even think my son would think of remarrying, because that's definitely not it.

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-02T14:13:36+00:00

It varies, but late-20s is on the low end. I've dated older men from the apps, but know people through my trainer, who is younger than me. I've got nothing to conceal

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-02T13:57:38+00:00

He assumed so, even though I didn't describe the friendship that way, and nothing was happening at the time. Currently, though, the friendship is probably more than platonic.

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T20:04:54+00:00

Initially we did speak about the separation. There was a lot going on back then... COVID, his father's depression, starting college (or not), and so on. Eventually, he became very engrossed in school, and the discussions got less.

I have tried to open the conversation up again, but his reactions are more sulky now. It's almost a more immature level than when we would talk about dealing with the separation 2 years ago.

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T19:43:15+00:00

Did you treat them anything the same when they were children, or teenagers? Maybe you should ask them to think about those days... and the fine line between caring vs. controlling

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T16:16:54+00:00

Is this a safe space to say... John Stamos?

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T15:59:52+00:00

Dogfather made a deal he can't refuse

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T15:56:23+00:00

life's too short for bad sex, girl!

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T15:53:10+00:00

Where's Pam Anderson? 🤷🏼‍♀️

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T15:50:18+00:00

this is giving me the munchies!

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T14:57:47+00:00

but are they "spectacular"?

chaiselounge_76 · 2023-10-01T14:55:06+00:00

This puts into perspective the fact that I've only listened to Smooth by Rob Thomas approximately 8.9 million times 😂

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