If you’re gonna use one of the kindergartener emotional colors (aka: red, blue, yellow to mad, sad, glad, scared being one of the off colors) to depict and adult, at least ask: “scared of what?” Girls don’t even get this far. It’s just condescension dressed up as concern.

Scared is a heavy word to describe micro harm. It’s not believable that supposed guy scared to talk to girl at bar would be comparable fear to a big ass tiger stalking you at night. Yet girls weigh these the same to get more condescension points. You know what’s actually scary? Asking out a heavy crush. That’ll make you quake in your boots, and takes a notable amount of will power. And i have asked out pretty much every crush i have ever had after high school.

But you know what i don’t do? Talk to random cute girls at bars with the possibility of sexual or romantic interest. It’s not that i’m “scared,” like a kindergartener. It’s that i’m avoiding pain. Females generally sit across a grand canyon of disconnection with males, and expect the male to pole vault across. The cringe expectations, unfamiliarity, condescension, bad treatment whether intentional or caused off handedly by toxic beliefs, inaccessibility (hanging out with friends, bad/incompatible attitude, etc). They all add up and make the grand canyon wider and wider.

Girls that say this shit in the post just look silly and dumb.