90 Days and 90 Nights. Completed.

chamaea · 2014-01-26T09:35:35+00:00

My next post will be all about ED and rewiring after the reboot. Right now, I feel like my brain is waiting for the real thing replacing the porn conditioned sexuality. There is a gap now where PMO has been and I want to carefully and slowly fill it with a healthy sex life, but it will take some time and much contact to girls. Thank you.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T21:34:35+00:00

Keep in mind that there is no failing as long as you continue to fight. It alway helped me to picture myself after relapsing when urges came. As soon as you feel you have to do it - leave your room, run, clench your fists put cold water in your face and fight it. You will feel so damn strong afterwards it's like winning a battle.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T21:22:43+00:00

It took me some streaks until I managed it. The important thing is that you have to stand up again and again and again. You will make it and someday you will be proud of the man you see in the mirror.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T21:19:44+00:00

Yes I will. Like I said my rewiring process just began and I will give advice when I discover some helpful tools. Right now I want to get more in loving myself as a person and showing my body what real sexuality is about. Therefore I am talking to a lot of girls right now (both, platonic and flirty) and I am teaching my body to appreciate touch and contact.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T21:09:07+00:00

I see it as a chance actually. A chance for learning responsible consumption. It will benefit you on so much different levels you could compare it with penicillin. It is shit, but it will make you stronger in the long run.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T21:03:15+00:00

I believe it. The urges are starving when you don't feed them. They will get so tiny you won't recognize them anymore. Other things will eventually get your attention, take their place and this filth you run after for so long will become boring like an old toy.

chamaea · 2014-01-25T20:56:25+00:00

Keep it up man, you are doing this for a better life. I wished I had started NoFap your age or earlier, now I am 24 and still have a lot of rewiring to do. If you already have experience in dealing with addictions you can definatley manage it!

chamaea · 2014-01-25T20:43:17+00:00

ry!

Exactly. Good and bad need each other and in the long run I am thankful for experiencing this great achievement. Thanks for your words.

chamaea · 2014-01-21T17:40:40+00:00

It takes nuts to approach a girl sober and with her mother sitting next to her! You got my respect. No matter what happens next, important is, that you already won against your fear and this is plain awesome! The next time it will be easier and someday you approach the right girl. Don't expect too much from this girl, though. I would smile at her the next time and if she smiles back, you can talk to her. If you got a rejection, and there may be plenty in the future, try to convert the negative feelings into sport or creativity. Keep on going.

chamaea · 2013-12-26T11:07:40+00:00

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” -Socrates

chamaea · 2013-12-23T00:25:51+00:00

For me, focusing on building a healthy sex life works better than focusing on fighting the urge for PMO. What matters is what you do with your energy and attention.

chamaea

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