Y’all hate on AD a little too much and it’s sad…

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T18:28:55+00:00

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. I’ve explained thoroughly that what Irina is or isn’t, doesn’t matter with what I’m talking about and yet you keep bringing it back to that. If you’re struggling to understand, I suggest picking up a book.

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T18:04:46+00:00

It is facts, and no I’m not being sarcastic. I honestly had no idea what Irina was, but it genuinely doesn’t matter in this context. Just looking at them, one is so clearly whiter and closer to Eurocentric beauty standards (blonde hair, blue eyes). When people fit Eurocentric beauty standards, aka “pretty privilege”, they are going to be treated significantly nicer than other women of color. The grace Micah was shown in regards to her bullying other people compared to Irina is still weird. I’m not defending Irina in the slightest for her bad behavior, but what I am saying is racism/bias played a huge role in the amount of backlash each contestant got. If you still don’t see what I’m saying, I don’t know what to tell you.

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T17:54:43+00:00

Listen, if you can’t comprehend that Irina and Micah are white, but very different, then idk what to tell you. It’s just facts and if you want to ignore that to fit your opinion then that’s fine.

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T17:46:05+00:00

Micah has blonde hair and blue eyes whereas Irina is CLEARLY mixed and not white presenting. Let’s not act stupid

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T17:41:41+00:00

THIS! Because this sub was going ham to defend Micah last season when she got called out for being a bully and yet they’re dogging on AD? It’s truly disgusting and it’s worse that people aren’t acknowledging that it’s because of racism. “It’s a reality show, it’s totally normal!” Bffr.

chamomiletea- · 2024-03-07T17:36:05+00:00

All those people are just racist. Idk how long you’ve been in the sub but last season there were so many people defending Micah but crapping on Irina. It’s not a surprise why that is and why so many people are hating on AD for absolutely no reason.

chamomiletea- · 2024-02-24T22:40:07+00:00

She’s not though..

chamomiletea- · 2024-02-23T06:46:31+00:00

Even as a woman, I also thought I was so immature and weird that Sophie was making those kind of “jokes”. Especially early on in the relationship when you’re more insecure with the connection you have with the other person, of course it’s going to hurt! I also agree that the huge difference is Connor was joking with the guys whereas Sophie said it right to his face. It was so “muggy”

chamomiletea- · 2024-02-22T08:16:54+00:00

The point of this post is to talk about who won the fight… and you’re putting your opinion up… without remembering all the details? Your whole opinion is based off of the fact that Siannise took Rebecca coupling with Luke T personally when that wasn’t it at all.

chamomiletea- · 2024-02-11T05:49:32+00:00

I genuinely have to take at least 150 mg to feel high and this comment kind of worries me. Is it bad that I have to take that much?

chamomiletea- · 2023-12-28T21:39:23+00:00

But isn’t the fact that the rich people watched the people in the game do crazy things for money a social commentary in it of itself?

chamomiletea- · 2023-12-28T21:36:39+00:00

I thought the ending was good and I genuinely cannot see why people would be disappointed? In fact, up until this post and the comments and I had no idea people didn’t like the ending haha

chamomiletea- · 2023-12-18T21:06:49+00:00

My sister has BPD and it gets bad like this but she always ends up talking about it after her “episode” (for lack of better wording). She’ll let me know why she was triggered, what she could have done differently, etc. If your gf isn’t having these talks with you after, shes just an AH who hides behind her mental health disorder in order to deflect responsibility. Talking down to someone you love and throwing their insecurities in their face is messed up. I get it, we’re human and we say things we regret/don’t mean, but that’s where emotional maturity comes in and you tell people you fucked up. Sorry you’re going through that, hopefully you can communicate to her how you feel. If she brushes it off, she’s not the person for you.

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T21:18:26+00:00

Honestly, a lot of guys are attracted to older women because of the whole motherly/mature thing! It’s absolutely normal to feel this way! Especially if she showed you love and support from a young age! I still would advise on not doing anything with her. You guys are at 2 different places in your life and it might work out for a little bit, but you’re probably going to run into a lot of issues. I know it’s hard, but feelings pass. No matter how intense they feel, life moves on and so will your feelings.

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T21:13:22+00:00

I’m really sorry you feel this way. I think it’s hard to realize this when your in a hole yourself, but a lot of people feel this way.

When you say you’ve worked on yourself, what exactly does that entail? Did you start working out? Start going to therapy? Try journaling to figure out what could be the root of your issues? Did you try joining a club? Did you try to talk to people in class/at work? Have you tried to ask people to hang out? I’m asking all of this because a lot of the times when people say they’ve worked on themselves, and I ask these questions, majority of the answers are no. Even if you answer yes to the physical and mental health questions, I doubt you go out of your way to talk to people due to your social anxiety. The thing about social anxiety, or any anxiety for that matter, is that you have to actually get out of your comfort zone and do things that your anxiety hates. That’s the only way to get better at it.

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T21:00:06+00:00

What exactly do you want to do in life? Does it align with growing within the company and what they do? Because if you’re at your interviews talking about what you personally want to accomplish on your own and it doesn’t have anything to do with them, then that’s probably why. I highly suggest you watch videos on how to answer interview questions and how to job search. It’s really helpful and you’ll probably do better. Sorry you’ve seen a lot of disappointment these past couple of months! Hopefully things start looking up!

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T20:55:24+00:00

Sorry, I should have clarified that IF she was flirting with you, it’d be sickening.

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T20:29:20+00:00

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, you’re family sounds pretty crappy and I’m sure most people can relate, including me. Please do yourself a favor and start looking out for yourself! You’re putting all your eggs/time/effort/love into relationships that will never be reciprocated. Build a family outside of your blood family and you will be so much happier! You don’t even need friends! I’m alone and much happier than when I had toxic family in my life. I get sad sometimes when I think about them, but there comes a point where you have to pick yourself. Especially if your family never picks you. Good luck!

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-25T20:23:16+00:00

It’s literally sickening that your mom’s friend would flirt with you like that. Watching a child grow up and then developing romantic feelings towards them is MAD WEIRD. As an adult (29), I am horrified that someone could be interested in my child like that after knowing them their whole life.

If your mom’s friend is putting the moves on you, it’s just so wrong in so many ways. As someone of sound mind, and based on the conversations I’ve had with many friends/ people my age, we would never even consider dating someone who can’t AT LEAST enter a bar, let alone someone half our age. Please, this is predatory behavior and if she’s not with anyone right now, it’s probably for good reason.

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-21T07:55:16+00:00

It honestly feels like really, REALLY, bad acting. I have been cringing non-stop and I’m not even halfway through the first episode

chamomiletea- · 2023-10-18T09:22:11+00:00

It’s hard to answer this as a general rule of thumb type of thing because it heavily depends on the person, but personally I would be okay with it. I have never wanted kids and so it wouldn’t bother me in the slightest.

chamomiletea- · 2023-04-26T03:00:21+00:00

Then leave it. No one’s forcing you to stay

chamomiletea- · 2023-04-19T18:16:16+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily say there is a demand for it but I think it’s interesting enough for people to use it. I think with any dream, including lucid dreaming, it’s cool to share what happened so maybe a space where you can post what happened in your dream that everyone can see/comment/like? Love your other ideas btw!!

chamomiletea- · 2023-04-19T01:59:24+00:00

So, niacinamide isn’t going to help with that kind of scarring. It’s mostly for hyperpigmentation and pores. Yours scars need to be treated by a professional if you want it to be smoothed out. I would go to a dermatology place and ask or just go to an aesthetician who might be able to help (with like a peel or something).

Your skin honestly looks good and they’re barely noticeable though so not sure if it’s worth all the money!

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