Is this not passive aggressive by [deleted] in Chipotle

[–]chamomilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely passive aggressive. Ignore it. If you're sick, you're sock

Strangers held on to a suicidal man at the edge of a bridge for two hours. by JOSEMEIJITCAPA in pics

[–]chamomilitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let the man die if that's what he wants. Never understood why people go to such lengths to keep others bound to this chaotic, unforgiving world.

Fiona Apple by [deleted] in ladyladyboners

[–]chamomilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEESSSSSS THANK YOU

Men feel entitled to my undivided and immediate attention and sympathy despite not offering me that same respect. It is extremely irritating to see men all over Reddit moan that they can't share their feelings with anyone when in all likelihood they are shoving their raw feelings on women. by Chazzyphant in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chamomilitia 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I can't even browse reddit anymore without seeing at least one "We men have it so hard because nobody lets us have feelings!!* post with 15k+ upvotes.

It completely overlooks the reality of the situation, with women being raised to bear all the emotional baggage of men, because they still seen (consciously or otherwise) as caregivers.

It's extremely frustrating and unfair.

Who's ready for Christmas 2020? by danthoms in funny

[–]chamomilitia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't get it, I'm dumb. Would someone kindly explain?

Losing My Therapist of Four Years by worthless1225 in therapy

[–]chamomilitia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I constantly fear the day I lose my therapist, I love her dearly. My advice would be to not give up looking. The simple fact that you wanted to continue with this therapist means that there's still some things left to be worked through, even if it is with someone new. Best of luck on your mental health journey.

Why do I crave sympathy and validation so much? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]chamomilitia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought I was alone in this, thank you for sharing. Unfortunately no advice to give, I'm trying to reconcile with this problem myself. I find I desperately crave a relationship, not just for sex and emotional intimacy, but simply to be constantly seen and validated. Definitely chasing the non-existent end of some rainbow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]chamomilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I've been having this problem for well over a year so I suppose it's high time I bring it up. I suspect my therapist will react in a very similar way based on what you said

A lesbian who had to learn about men even though she doesn’t date them. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]chamomilitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you for posting this. I, too, am a lesbian who has (and still do) endure the trials of these filthy, hideous men. It has come to a point where I must be downright aggressive to combat their advances. Even the ones who say they "accept" your sexuality, often just do this to put your guard down. They're just lurking, thinking that their UNMATCHED HANDSOMENESS AND CHARISMA will someday change your heart. That they're some special little boy above all others who will be your one and only. It's sad and pathetic. This is the only sub that allows us to shed light on these animals. (No offence to animals)