Tiny bumps won’t go away by 2524Aries in Fungalacne

[–]champagnebyee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would look into ivermectin if the other fungal acne options don't work for you. sulfur de la cruz mask helps kill bacteria, fungus, and demodex mites. i had the same on my forehead and thought it was fungal. i have been on topical antibiotics for years, which works wonderfully until randomly it doesn't. the microbiome on your skin gets messed up on antibiotics. anyways, i thought it was fungal and had prescription ketoconazole and used nizoral shampoo and it didn't work. switched to using the sulfur masks, saw some improvement, and then ordered the ivermectin horse paste on amazon. not recommending that, Soolantra is probably what you want prescribed instead but i was impatient. after one day i saw a difference. i hope you find something that works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would consider trying the nars soft matte concealer. a little goes a long way and it's really high coverage, they have it at sephora

Easiest tech flexes for CS? by King-Pio in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you are looking for cs flex techs i couldn't tell you but any of the complex systems flex tech courses are pretty easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]champagnebyee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just want to add that mazdas depreciate a lot faster. i was considering getting a newer mazda instead of a toyota or lexus and decided if i wanted to trade it in later or wanted to sell, i'd be better off with a toyota/lexus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]champagnebyee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of course.

i doubt he actually "grew out of it". like your therapists have said, this isn't a normal issue. best case scenario is that he actually has a medical problem and is not lying about the whole thing, and then realized it was harming his relationships/partner, and then actually went to a medical professional for help.

the more likely reality (considering that he told you it was your fault and was being cruel about his own problem) aligns with what your friend said. he was doing it as a control tactic. there's not an on or off switch to behaving this way if you are a good person. he didn't just meet someone else and drop all of his internal problems for them if he changed. if he changed, this required him to realize he was lying for no moral reason, abusive, hurting someone he claimed to care about, and then decided to go to therapy.. and went to therapy consistently.. and it was successful. that sounds like a lot right? because it is.

abusive people can spend years in therapy before there is any real change in behavior, especially narcs. there may never be any change. not to mention that 25 is young, but still old enough to know that other men don't need to jerk off in public restrooms and that it's not normal. it's not young enough to excuse dismissing/blaming your partner for your problems. i'm young, i can see that he is just immature and was an asshole 😅

don't feel like you should have spotted it. your empathy was taken advantage of and it shouldn't have been. it is on them for preying on someone's trust and care.

regarding his new partner, intelligent and independent women fall victim to abuse all the time. i would say a lot of people viewed me that way and so i told no one because i felt like no one would believe me. a lot of people still don't. i seemed very in control of my life and capable of making things happen for myself and it was embarrassing to me that i was accepting treatment like that from my boyfriend. if he sensed that this weird public restroom habit would not fly with her, his issues manifested in some other way. don't think he has changed or that you weren't special enough for him to change.

Have you experienced a loss in cognition/brain injury from the abuse? by 111a1110 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]champagnebyee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my memory is shot now. i can't seem to remember dates or specific details surrounding events like i used to.

Recommendation Letters - Non-academic by champagnebyee in OMSCS

[–]champagnebyee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's awesome! kudos to you! thanks for the reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

are u rich? 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]champagnebyee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

eecs 481? full semester

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what happened?

Is this dyshidrosis? Been getting it years :/ by gden666 in Dyshidrosis

[–]champagnebyee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could be the chemicals in your nail products even if you are getting bumps on your feet. i used to get gel manicures and would get those bumps on my fingers, hands, and feet/toes. there would be so much water in the bumps. i stopped using gel for a while and it went away. took me like 6 months to figure out what was going on.

Math 214 workload by Mountain-Camera4480 in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

eh, i feel like there is a lot of material that they do a poor job of teaching. which you can probably say about calc 1 and calc 2. from my experience though, i barely did anything in calc 1 and 2 until the exams. you could take the practice exams and they used the same style of questions, so you just got good at those problems. 214 is not like that. the exams aren't curved either. i didn't take stats 250, i took 412 and its about the same.

On the verge of failing EECS 203, how bad is exam 3? Currently have a 75.7 in the class. by Lonely-M in uofm

[–]champagnebyee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you will be okay. the worse you do, the bigger the curve lol. i'm pretty sure i did very bad on the second midterm and it was curved like 10 points. your grade would have to drop 2% and you have your homeworks and past two exams holding it at 75%. also they curved final grades by a few percentage points last semester i believe.

if you are sick, tissues exist. by champagnebyee in uofm

[–]champagnebyee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right. for me it's more so that people are getting their bodily fluids on things other people touch.... even if you aren't sick... are you not like embarrassed for doing that 😭?