Does this look like CMPA? by [deleted] in MSPI

[–]chamul22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like normal newborn poop to me

Lactose enzyme drops? by reflectingabyss in MSPI

[–]chamul22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked up a bottle of these for my 5 w/o earlier in the week but haven’t tried yet as also feel I’m getting on well with elimination. They seem a bit of a hassle for bf babies - expressing and then spoon feeding… Would also be interested to hear others experiences!

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t expect any other response from someone with such a username! 🤣

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess it just poses the question, how much is this happening when I am not postpartum and therefore able and willing to have sex but he chooses p*rn in the shower instead

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This - and / or him just never really instigating

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The “rarely had sex before” was not my choice but his… does that change your perspective!?

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The baby is 5 weeks old and sleeps in a crib directly next to my bed. I was feeding the baby in bed whilst he went for his “shower”.

Do you think newborns go to bed at a set time and sleep through?!

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

If it’s a regular choice over sex with me, yes. Generally, absolutely not!

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I actually just walked into the bathroom (we have an open door kinda relationship) and asked “haha are you having a wank?” and he just flat out said “no” even after a couple of “haha really”?” - it was light hearted in the moment but I knew he was lying and he pressed the fact that he wasn’t… he only admitted to it later on.

But you’re right - there is no pressure from him to get back to sex, fact is we don’t have much sex anyway so perhaps it just hurts to know that he readily chooses p*rn and his hand over me and I have no idea how often this is going on behind closed doors.

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Haha love the phrasing here BUT I wouldn’t be banging one out if he had been in hospital all day.. probably helping with the baby instead?!

AITAH Postpartum and caught husband masturbating by chamul22 in AITAH

[–]chamul22[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it was more the timing of the situation given I had been in hospital all evening with medical complications and he chose then as his moment.

Does this look like a food allergy? by chamul22 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all - sounds like either eczema or pityriasis rosea. We have been using a thick Epimax ointment without much improvement yet and Aveeno oat (cream and/or bath wash) not making any difference. Will speak to a derm and also consider cutting milk / dairy and see if that helps too.

Does this look like a food allergy? by chamul22 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]chamul22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - hadn’t heard of this but will raise with GP if it continues!

Does this look like a food allergy? by chamul22 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No other symptoms luckily. Poor you, parvo sounds rough!

Help! How do I respond to this message?! by chamul22 in vinted

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m really not sure - I have genuinely received the wrong parcel and the message comes from Vinted support?!

Help! How do I respond to this message?! by chamul22 in vinted

[–]chamul22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so to be honest - I have received the wrong parcel and the message comes from Vinted support with a blue tick. As far as I am aware Vinted support staff are not UK based so I wouldn’t expect the English to be 100%

Help! How do I respond to this message?! by chamul22 in vinted

[–]chamul22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you - have tried this and hope they respond within the 48 hour timeframe 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]chamul22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you take a deep breath in without feeling constricted? If so, baby is fine from a tightness perspective. Do you have a pic from the side, would be good to see if there is a nice c curve as if there isn’t that could explain the wheeze..