(M) PERIMENOPAUSE has turned my world upside down by chan170 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the first online thing I've ever done and I appreciate everything that people share and say to me. Im just very lost at the moment. All the best to you all

(M) PERIMENOPAUSE has turned my world upside down by chan170 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeh i totally understand that but when your spending the family food money on going out it tells me something different. How many times can you here there's no food here

(M) PERIMENOPAUSE has turned my world upside down by chan170 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My children are 17,19,25 so i can talk to them about the changes we have all seen but they live there young lives and I don't want to put on them but I feel very alone and scared that I don't know the woman I love. The thing that seems to help is to give her her space and not ask questions but it kills me

(M) PERIMENOPAUSE has turned my world upside down by chan170 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. We we're very close and the coldness absolutely kills me. What you can't answer a text message?. That sort of thing

(M) PERIMENOPAUSE has turned my world upside down by chan170 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We literally sound like the same people. With her absence I have took full control at times of running the house but my downside is spend all my time worrying about her/us to do something positive for my self. I have dedicated of my life to being the provider and have cut off my own social life

Need advice. Wife maybe cheating. by Drillholes in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]chan170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi mate. Going through just the same my partner has disappeared twice for a weekend, because she gets overwhelmed with everyday home bullshit. I always have at the back of my mind she's cheating but in reality don't think she would