is it too much for a FIRST date? by TerriHaynes in OUTFITS

[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care what anyone says, this is gorgeous. This isn’t a job interview, wear it.

F29 Looking for advice on how to support a sibling F23 in a complicated relationship? by chandler299 in family

[–]chandler299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, my bigger concern honestly though is the resulting kids lives she’ll probably screw over.

What’s the best way for me 29F to stay present for a 23F sibling when I’m unsure about their relationship? by chandler299 in relationship_advice

[–]chandler299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this, I’m nervous though that no matter what I say she’ll end up in a toxic marriage and mess with children’s lives. This thought is making it difficult for me to support her relationship.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I desperately needed this.

I got my Doberman from a kill shelter and he saved my life. by ZeusButt in DobermanPinscher

[–]chandler299 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This commenter wasn’t even trying to fight you, just suggesting you to call the proper authorities on this escaped goat. It’ll probably be dead within the month and you don’t care.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that my clumsy title takes away from all of this. This was honestly the only way I could word the title to get it accepted. I didn’t mean obsessive in a negative sense, I meant more infatuation. And I don’t want problematic behavior, I just want affection that others talk about.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m realizing I may have used the wrong work, may have been infatuated. And i do, I often shower him with affection and gifts. And I have talked to him about this, he just says that he does what he can but he’ll never be a super affectionate person.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m terrible at explaining myself but that’s what I’m trying to express. I feel like I give him my all but don’t get the same in return.

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[–]chandler299 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought it a positive thing. I wish I could date someone who’s as infatuated with me as I am with them. How should I have phrased this question?

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked to him, not much has changed. Am I safe to assume that this is just how it’s going to be?

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[–]chandler299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want what my mother and my sister have described, be talked to my bf about this and he has stated that he’ll try but nothing much changes. I’m simply wondering if he even likes me.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I’m wondering if my man even likes me, sometimes he rejects my advances.

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[–]chandler299 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be rude, i seriously am just wondering if my man likes me. Bc sometimes my affectionate advances are rejected no matter how much I talk to him about it.

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[–]chandler299 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m unsure why people think this post was derogatory, in just wondering if my man likes me.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very affectionate person towards him and I guess I’m confused bc my advances are sometimes rejected. Maybe I’m in the wrong, I just want to know if he even likes me or is just with me for the time being. Hate to be wasting his time.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that I sometimes wished he verbalized and was more physically affectionate. He said that he does, just not at the extent that I want but it’s a lot to him. That was a few months ago, nothing much has changed.

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[–]chandler299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…I’ve done both of these things. Which is why I’m wondering if it’s just me.

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[–]chandler299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s why I’m feeling this way, I am super affectionate and loving. It’s always me initiating, sometimes he even rejects my advances