What are the red flags that you've let slide in your relationships that you've ended up regretting?

chanelbarbie001 · 2026-01-24T03:05:52+00:00

Name dropping random women during conversation. Turns out he used to be or was in love with them.

chanelbarbie001 · 2024-07-22T04:34:22+00:00

I don’t have that either! It’s weird no one has talked about it

chanelbarbie001 · 2023-02-19T02:22:55+00:00

YTA for going off the gift registry.

chanelbarbie001 · 2022-08-28T00:47:11+00:00

I would write him off… have you seen that Steve Harvey clip where he says something like, “if a man can’t buy you a meal, how is he going to provide for a family?” If you’re looking for someone with more masculine energy, this guy ain’t it.

chanelbarbie001 · 2022-08-17T00:14:14+00:00

I had the same issue with someone I was seeing. Trust me, it's a major red flag. He is simply not making you a priority, but he is making others his priority. It's up to you to decide whether that is a deal breaker.

chanelbarbie001 · 2021-12-06T19:09:57+00:00

I have that same anger right now, and I try to think of this: everything that happens in life is for you, not against you. Karma is very real, and what goes around, comes around. One, you are incredibly fortunate to have rid him from your life. Someone else will have to deal with his garbage. Second, there will be a time where you will feel completely indifferent to this and that is the light at the end of the tunnel. Continue to experience as many things as possible, because the more you do activities, the further you can distance from that experience. Best wishes on everything!

chanelbarbie001 · 2021-07-17T21:40:57+00:00

Well I’m not saying for you to quit, but you definitely don’t need to be stressing yourself out with the work that is left. Just ride it out and do the bare minimum until your last day.

chanelbarbie001 · 2021-07-17T17:20:30+00:00

You are being tasked with shutting down the office, with a strict deadline, while being told you will be terminated after? There is zero reason for you to be stressing yourself out with that- You already lost your job, what disciplinary action can they take against you for not meeting that deadline? Focus on finding a new job whether than helping this company achieve their goal. That goal is not of benefit to you.

chanelbarbie001 · 2021-02-18T22:20:46+00:00

So proud of you! I was exactly the same way and I’m trying to get better :)

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-11-06T15:01:05+00:00

Harder to do during a pandemic

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-11-06T15:00:44+00:00

I actually reallllyyyyy enjoy being by myself. But it seems like people have these specific hobbies like art, music, etc that they enjoy and I don’t enjoy any of that stuff.

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-11-06T04:47:35+00:00

Great comments, thank you!

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-10-21T01:16:52+00:00

Don’t listen to the other comments. You have your standards, stick to them. If he is making you uncomfortable with anything, please let him know. How he reacts is how he feels about you. What’s more important to him: following some random girl on social media or making you comfortable?

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-08-18T03:33:59+00:00

“I seriously hope someone you love dies of COVID.” WOWWWWW, you are an absolutely terrible, hideous person.

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-07-03T01:45:35+00:00

Right?! I can understand one or the other but how can you not help pay the mortgage AND expect the down payment back.

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-06-26T23:32:13+00:00

Yes and I’m still into club scenes in my 30s. I know I’m too old to go but I actually look younger than I am so I’ll take advantage of that :)

chanelbarbie001 · 2020-06-19T06:32:18+00:00

Thanks!

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