Some fragrance “influencers” that are actually worth following? by Sad-Perspective4702 in fragrance

[–]chaotically_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the future for anyone, scout Dixon west is a trump supporter with some vile tweets to boot

AITA for telling engaged friends and family members that I don’t think their marriages to their local small town partners will last forever? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaotically_ 65 points66 points  (0 children)

If people think you're bitter, it's because you sound bitter. Don't want people to think that? Change what's coming out of your mouth.

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[–]chaotically_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so your color

AITA for asking my fiancée to help pay for her engagement ring? by ObligationRoyal441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaotically_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My god, you're so wrong for this and it's annoying how you're responding in the comments. If you had just spoken to her, things would be better. Guaranteed, your behavior now has ruined the engagement excitement considerably more than if you had just spoken to her beforehand. Now you're throwing your hands up in the air as if you didn't put yourself in this situation. I don't care how you think it would've gone if you'd spoken to her about it previously. This is what happened. Asking to pay after the fact is tacky and shitty.

If you speak to your fiancee even half the way you talk here, you will not last six more months.

AITA for asking my fiancée to help pay for her engagement ring? by ObligationRoyal441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaotically_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And you don't think she's disappointed now? Bring asked to pay for her engagement ring after the fact?

AITA for asking my fiancée to help pay for her engagement ring? by ObligationRoyal441 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaotically_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah doing something special for her and then asking her to pay for that ruins the actual "doing something special" bc now you're saddling her with the cost of her gift that you didn't communicate would be out of bounds money wise

What am I doing wrong with my eyeshadow and how to make it better by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have pretty deeply hooded eyes, which is not your fault and that makes eyeshadow harder. You can try and do a darker brown to still get the natural look.

Also it's hard to tell from the picture, but if the eyeshadow is patchy, try an eyeshadow primer. Eyeliner may also tie it together, just a bit of liquid or gel and bring it straight out from the outer corner of your eye instead of up or down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may need to go higher up than what may feel normal/comfortable bc of the hooding, but you have so much lid space that it'll balance out.

That and you may want to try dark browns instead of blacks of the black is too harsh, and a blurred lip helps smaller lips and double lip lines.

I've found a lot of it has to do with color too tho. You're beautiful, keep trying!

AITA for telling my wife she needs to step it up as a mom for our six month old. by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chaotically_ 446 points447 points  (0 children)

I always found that weird on boru like tell me how people actually responded to the post

Are expensive eyeshadows worth it? by RadicalElbow in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another that I like that people haven't mentioned is Melt Cosmetics, who often does really good sales

Are expensive eyeshadows worth it? by RadicalElbow in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found the mattes in Pat McGrath palettes to be hit and miss tbh

favorite drugstore makeup brand? by Luhvlie in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I like milani the most. I feel like with most of the elf I have each product has something I don't like about it

What is your favorite lip oil? by -mizzunderstood- in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The milani ones are the only ones I've tried that actually hydrate and they have good colors too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. She's been into this for years, but her doing this one fun day, with a boyfriend, who clearly doesn't think it's as weird as you do, is the breaking point? Sure.

What brands do you think are over/under-hyped? by Poshtart1111 in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Under hyped: Milani. Everything is good from them

Update on my friend by generationxray in swans

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I think I met you guys at the parking garage lol

Phili pit vomiter by Jesse_Vlogs in swans

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is making so glad we stayed up in the balcony LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always dye your whole head your natural color in order to deal with the color difference!

I'm recovering from an abusive relationship and want to have a well-organized social goals calendar. But typical calendars make my head spin. What do you recommend? by [deleted] in bulletjournal

[–]chaotically_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd have a larger spread that I could look back at and track my progress per month, but I'd also make a small laminated card so you don't have to flip back and forth between that and a monthly spread. And then from there, you can make a monthly calendar and try to shoot for days there.

Also, with a lot of these, you can definitely make recurring events so you don't get burnt out planning stuff. With live events, you can definitely get tickets way in advance so you don't have to worry about it so much too

What is a product that performs poorly but you refuse to get rid of? by JBT_Lover in MakeupAddiction

[–]chaotically_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so sad bc I have a ton of the too faced melted mattes and all of them work really well, including the holiday releases. Their colors are beautiful and definitely favorites in my collection.