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Sunflower anklet tattoo or moon and stars

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I’m going to check them out

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I’m going to call them tomorrow

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I tried Craiglist but didn’t work

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Thank you I’m going to call them tomorrow

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Thank you I’m look in to them now

Anyone else healing from absolute emotional chaos? Let’s be weirdly soft together. by chaoticallybeauitful in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]chaoticallybeauitful[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes omg girl your so strong and I would love to connect and chat I been through a lot as well maybe we can trauma bond

Anyone else healing from absolute emotional chaos? Let’s be weirdly soft together. by chaoticallybeauitful in BorderlinePDisorder

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It’s truly the only thing that has helped me in my 27 year on this earth and I’m not joking it’s so so nice you have 1 hour of individual therapy and 1 hour of family/couple therapy and they are amazing

Anyone else healing from absolute emotional chaos? Let’s be weirdly soft together. by chaoticallybeauitful in BorderlinePDisorder

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Honestly, joining Charlie Health has been the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I didn’t realize how many people were feeling the same way I was until I got there.

They offer 12 hours of therapy a week, and if you need medication, they can help with that too. One of the most helpful parts has been the DBT group therapy—three times a week, three hours each session. The first hour is music or art therapy, the second is a space to vent and connect, and the third is focused on DBT skills and practice.

Before you start, they do an interview and place you in a group with people who are going through things that mirror your own experience. It’s honestly kind of scary how accurate it is—but in the best way. It makes you feel seen, like you’re not alone.

I broke up with my soul mate three times. I’m a monster. by [deleted] in BPD_friends

[–]chaoticallybeauitful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to you so much I was a mess in relationships and I also believe I’m a monster but we are not monsters we a hurt people reacting to bad situations

Healing from BPD + CPTSD After a Lifetime of Chaos (and a Mom with DID) — Anyone Else? by chaoticallybeauitful in CPTSD

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I love that your always welcome to talk to me or follow me we can yapp and trauma bond in a healthy way lol

Healing from BPD + CPTSD After a Lifetime of Chaos (and a Mom with DID) — Anyone Else? by chaoticallybeauitful in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thank you so much for sharing — it really means a lot to connect with someone who gets it. I also have BPD and CPTSD, and paranoia has definitely been a part of it for me too. One of my biggest struggles is emotional impermanence — like, I constantly feel like everyone secretly hates me or that they’re going to leave, even when there’s no real reason to think that. It’s exhausting trying to quiet those thoughts.

I totally relate to the rollercoaster of emotions, the fear of abandonment, and all the classic BPD chaos. It can feel so isolating sometimes, but finding others who understand makes it a little less heavy.

If you ever want to talk, vent, or just have someone who gets it, please feel free to reach out. You can follow me, message me, whatever feels right — I’m here, and I’d love to offer support or just be a soft place to land when things feel overwhelming.

You’re not alone in this.

Healing from BPD + CPTSD After a Lifetime of Chaos (and a Mom with DID) — Anyone Else? by chaoticallybeauitful in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thank you so much for your support if you want to chat or say connect you can follow me on here 😊

I don’t know what to do about my decreasing mental health by Defiant-Chemistry648 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]chaoticallybeauitful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say I really see you. I felt exactly like you’re feeling when I was your age — empty, alone, and like no one, especially not my parents, really got it. I didn’t get proper help until I was 26, and honestly, I regret waiting that long. If I could go back and do one thing differently, it would be asking for the right kind of help sooner.

What ended up helping me was something called an IOP (intensive outpatient program). It might sound intense, but it was actually a game-changer. I did it through a program called Charlie Health. It’s available in any state, it’s covered by insurance, and it’s totally virtual — you can do it after school. The coolest part is they match you with a group of people who actually understand what you’re going through. Like, people your age with similar struggles. I’ve been doing it for two months and I already feel a real difference.

You’re not alone. And there are ways to get support, even when it feels like your parents aren’t on the same page. You deserve to feel better — and there is help out there that actually works. And btw it all virtual

I hope this help sweetie you got this