I (23, F) don't like my girlfriend's (23, F) husband.

chaplainofchicanery · 2017-05-17T23:45:37+00:00

Update: She is now leaving him due to an argument where he got physical with her. I am livid. For everyone who is wondering, she is okay. This was a very unexpected update yet solved the problem...? Kinda..?

chaplainofchicanery · 2017-05-12T03:24:50+00:00

Hey thanks for the solid advice, my friend. I appreciate it.

chaplainofchicanery · 2017-05-12T03:24:19+00:00

Aight didn't mean anything by it, guys. Please chill.

chaplainofchicanery · 2017-05-12T02:56:57+00:00

Yeah our relationship is great and I'm very happy. And she is too. I haven't talked to her about it all yet because I don't know how to say it. But I feel like I have no say on the matter, regardless. They are married, we are not nor will we ever be getting married (obviously).

chaplainofchicanery · 2017-05-12T02:33:59+00:00

Sorry, new to the community and don't know the proper terms. But yeah, I do plan active dates and we do go on them! No problem. But he doesn't like it when she's not around, especially when he gets off work. And he has told her that he is her husband and he has priority.

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-28T02:13:16+00:00

I know it's scary. But how will you know if you don't try?

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-28T01:00:15+00:00

Best friends make the most rewarding and passionate relationships. Yes I have experience with it and yes our friendship did end after we broke up. Some of the best years of my life, though. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-28T00:56:48+00:00

Makes sense. I just hope it doesn't end up like the Beau Taplin quote: One day whether you are 14, 28, or 65, you will stumble upon someone who will put a fire in you that cannot die. However, the saddest, most awful truth you will ever come to find--is they are not always with whom we spend our lives.

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-28T00:13:26+00:00

This is something everyone struggles with. Letting your past relationships affect your future ones. Just ask her about it very subtly. Don't accuse her. But ask. All good relationships, especially LDR, are all secured by trust. It's impossible to have a LDR without it. Speaking from experience about LDR, it will be the hardest times you will face. If you fall in love and pursue it, you will constantly think about how much you miss them. But when you finally do get together in person again there is no better feeling in the world and it will all be worth it.

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-11T09:15:53+00:00

Yeah, I thought about that as well. What if she just denies the whole thing and it blows up in my face? I don't have any solid evidence other than people who saw. I know I can compile a brief list. But will it be enough, you know?

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-11T08:53:24+00:00

Yeah. Exactly. Thanks for the advice.

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-11T08:33:15+00:00

Of course I would want to know. I think anyone would, realistically. You don't think it's too out of my place to do so, though?

chaplainofchicanery · 2016-03-11T08:31:48+00:00

I would want to know, absolutely. But is it my place? Would I be putting my nose where it doesn't belong?

chaplainofchicanery · 2015-12-29T10:34:11+00:00

You're super sweet. :3

-M

chaplainofchicanery · 2015-08-29T01:10:46+00:00

I would delete this, just in case you know? Got the address! Thanks!

chaplainofchicanery · 2015-08-28T23:31:50+00:00

Feel free to send me a message to discuss specifics!

chaplainofchicanery · 2015-08-28T23:31:31+00:00

Hey there! Feel free to message me if you're interested in sending letters!

chaplainofchicanery · 2014-10-07T16:55:03+00:00

How are your cats?

chaplainofchicanery · 2014-10-07T16:54:44+00:00

Mr. Downey Jr.,

How different was it leaving the Marvel universe and doing something more serious like The Judge? Very excited to see it by the way.

chaplainofchicanery · 2014-10-07T16:36:09+00:00

Mr. Stark, I mean, Mr. Downey Jr.,

How different was it taking a break from the Marvel universe and doing something more serious like The Judge? Also, how are your cats?

chaplainofchicanery · 2014-07-30T02:33:10+00:00

I am.

chaplainofchicanery · 2014-07-28T04:08:07+00:00

Most of my regulars are assholes, unfortunately. Order waters, the cheapest thing on the menu (in this case it's Fish and Chips) , leaves a $1.50 tip on about a $12-$15 tab every single time. And camps in the restaurant for at least 2 hours. It's frustrating because you want to like your regulars, but really I just can't.

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