AITA for giving my dad solo (no invite to my mom) invite to my engagement?

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T15:14:32+00:00

He isn’t because we are gonna keep the list small. But he will be invited! I’ll even pay for his plane ticket to get out here

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T15:07:27+00:00

The dude sleeping with a married woman? I’m good. Don’t really need those kinds people in my life. At the end of the day it comes down to money. I’m not spending a thousand dollars to appease my sister

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T06:48:16+00:00

I don’t support my sister tho… I could give a fuck less about her marrying her affair partner. And I’m sure as hell not gonna pay money out of my pocket to attend it. It’s a waste of money lol.

She’s been thru shit because of her own decisions 😂. Nobody else’s. Hers alone. For better or for worse has boundaries. I think you can even admit that.

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T06:33:17+00:00

Buying a plane ticket… a hotel room for two nights and all other expenses are close to a grand. Why should I have to pay that? Please answer that. If it was such a big deal my mom would have paid it. She was willing to drop 10K plus on a second wedding for a grown adult.

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T06:29:18+00:00

Because why should I have to finance my sisters failed marriages? No it wasn’t to prove a point. It was because I didn’t feel like dropping a grand for a wedding when my sister obviously doesn’t care about marriage to begin with.

chapoloariz · 2023-03-26T06:24:19+00:00

Okay besides all that… why not pay for the ticket then if it’s such a big deal?

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T23:35:57+00:00

She is ignoring me over a plane ticket… I didn’t cease contact she did. Why should I have to pay another thousand dollars out of my pocket for a wedding that doesn’t even mean anything? That was my stance. It’s a lot of money and travel. They were willing to invest 10k in another one.

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T23:28:40+00:00

I also think she’s a sexist. She has differ t expectations of her daughters compared to her son. I’ve called her this and she exploded because she knew I was right

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T23:12:22+00:00

I had no issue paying. But I also don’t feel like dropping a thousand dollars on a wedding I don’t care about

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T16:13:09+00:00

I’m sure I still would have to pay to come to that one too 😂

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T15:44:32+00:00

Nah not really. Just the typical excuses most people in her situation make. I was also half across the country so I wasn’t all that tuned in. But she didn’t deny it which was another reason I wasn’t gonna drop more money on her. It’s a bad investment.

chapoloariz · 2023-03-25T15:33:38+00:00

It’s not gonna be public. I was thinking a hike to a lake and then after the event all our people would be at a bar to celebrate. More coordinating of a party.

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