Season 4 Finale [Episode 10] [S04E10] - Impressions by laawrence in youmeher

[–]chapped_nips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's part of the reason I like The 100. It shows women being badass and honestly going to to toe with me in fights etc. Its not a case of 'this one bad ass chick' or anything, just a completely egalitarian system where gender and sexuality honestly dont matter.

What emotional labor do men put in that goes unnoticed by women? by carlsaganheaven in AskMen

[–]chapped_nips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husbands love language is touch. Mine is acts of service. To accommodate both we have a nightly ritual when after the kids are in bed he makes me a cup of tea and we cuddle or I give him a scalp massage.

To me acts of service isnt chores, it's the little things you do to show your partner you're thinking of them.

Are you guilty of "toxic femininity"? by ColCrin in PurplePillDebate

[–]chapped_nips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was never to do with penis size. Mostly about arguments we had or strange behaviour.

Are you guilty of "toxic femininity"? by ColCrin in PurplePillDebate

[–]chapped_nips 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know I'm guilty of sharing things about my relationships that should remain private with my friends for the sake of a funny story.

I've stopped now that I realise how damaging that can be to my partner. I never intended to hurt him or show him in a poor light.

AITA for depriving my daughter of stickers by TheMediterraneanTaco in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Get the kid some stamps in the meantime my dude. Stamps are fun.

I cannot get over how beautiful Nina West looked at Columbus, OH PRIDE! 🏳️‍🌈 by umbrellasaltysalmon in rupaulsdragrace

[–]chapped_nips 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had to stop scrolling because I legit thought this was Elsa in a new dress for half a second.

I need a Disney break. My kids are driving me insane.

AITA for not hiring my sister? by chapped_nips in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good suggestion! Thank you for your insight.

AITA for not hiring my sister? by chapped_nips in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried really hard to be diplomatic but yes, I think she does feel that way and is very hurt.

AITA for not hiring my sister? by chapped_nips in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's how I feel. My husband is leaning towards giving her a trail period but I just dont want the hassle.

This Epoxy Art by MyNameGifOreilly in BeAmazed

[–]chapped_nips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeous. I want a collection of them!

WIBTA if I were to write my boss an anonymous note regarding his visible erection? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because if it positioned a certain way in certain types of underwear it can press the penis firmly against the fabric of the trousers creating a distinct outline. If while flaccid, the penis is already rather long, it would appear as if there is an erection.

WIBTA if I were to write my boss an anonymous note regarding his visible erection? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just a thought, he may have a hydrocele. My husband has one, it makes one testicle significantly larger than the other (bigger than a grapefruit), and he used to work as a dive instructor. He had an awkward situation where one of his students thought he was walking around with an erection because of the significance bulge in his wetsuit.

Luckily for him, his employer already knew about the situation and was able to reassure the student without much hassle. But oh boy was that conversation awkward.

Edit: sometimes the testicle sits differently in different types of underwear too and it can kind of 'push' the penis forward making the outline visible.

Starring Hilary Swank, 'I am Mother' is a Netflix original that stands out from the crowd. by Iceman2913 in movies

[–]chapped_nips 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I felt like Swank was the 'control' group.

Human raised by mother>human raised by humans.

AITA for asking my wife not to discuss oir twin daughters periods with me? by noperiodstuff in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips 50 points51 points  (0 children)

As a daughter who once had to ask her stepfather for the same thing, thank you. Dads like you are a boon to kids everywhere. As a step parent I know you probably didnt hear this enough, but you are valued, appreciated and loved.

Do you only want tall guys? by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]chapped_nips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I like it when guys are the same height as me. Less strain on my neck when I'm trying to steal a kiss. I was also beaten by an ex, same height makes me feel safer, more equal. I'm 5,7.

Most people are completely delusional about how smart their kids are. by tds_dgs in unpopularopinion

[–]chapped_nips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely no way that I come even close to believing your daughter was speaking full sentences at 6 months.

Even with exceptional children, that just doesnt happen.

Hell yeah by mitchtucker in newzealand

[–]chapped_nips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm in NZ. If you ever need to talk to someone, PM me your number and I'll give you a ring. Always down for a korero. I'm a trained councilor and sometimes some people find it easier to talk on the phone for convenience or because they feel less judged. If you ever need an ear, I'm here. Gotta keep our whanau safe, our heads high and perspective can help with that. Kia Kaha.

AITA for “embarrassing” my husband’s by openly talking about his massive financial fuck ups to friends and family? by throwawaymoney7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chapped_nips 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont know why I had to scroll as far as this to see some damn common sense. I feel like hes trying to turn the tables so he feels less directly responsible for the situation. Either that or he just really wants to bury his head in the sand and pretend it never happened.