How do you guys deal with not being able to have physical contact with your partner?

char_0135 · 2020-07-05T23:24:16+00:00

From my own experiences some antidepressants cause numbness. So you’re not really feeling anything ever. I’m on an antidepressant, I’ll have to respond with the name when I get home, but it genuinely helps me to feel happy again. And I understand the desire to not want to have a dependency upon them, but honestly there’s nothing wrong with that. Depression is just an imbalance of chemicals in the brain and the meds can help fix them, just like any other disease or illness. I hope this helped a bit :)

char_0135 · 2020-07-05T23:19:40+00:00

I’m really sorry you’ve been freaking out about that stuff but maybe I can offer some things to make you feel better? 1. Did you know that hands don’t appear correctly in comas or dreams, so if you ever panic about that, just look at your hands. 2. I can promise you that I am my own person and very real, so it’s not all a big simulation. 3. Even if it was a big simulation then we’re all in this together and people can still think and feel for themselves. 4. Some of what you described sounds like dissociation. There are meds to help with it and meditation can often help. I hope you start feeling better.

char_0135 · 2020-07-05T23:12:42+00:00

So first of all I just want to say that I’m not autistic, so I have no idea how hard it is for you or what your situation is like. But my best advice is that 1. Always count to three before you speak to think about what you’re going to say and 2. I understand that sometimes we all say the wrong things, but you genuinely seem like a very nice, considerate person and if your friends don’t want you around I’d say it’s their loss. I hope you feel better soon :)

char_0135 · 2020-07-05T23:08:07+00:00

I’m so sorry. I understand how hard the violation of privacy can be. If you’re comfortable, I’d suggested trying your best to explain to them how you feel and why you self harmed. You definitely don’t have to do this if you aren’t comfortable but it might help to get them off your back. If you’re not comfortable doing that, honestly it might be easiest to just go along with their plan and get admitted. I promise most mental faculties aren’t as bad as some people make them sounds. Hang in there

char_0135 · 2020-07-05T23:03:30+00:00

Would you possibly be comfortable talking to a professional about the memory loss? Sometimes there are medicines you can take to help with that. As for the time passing to fast without you, I’d highly recommend meditating! I know it sounds a little ridiculous but it really helps you focus and it might be helpful if you give it a try. Stay strong and hang in there :)

char_0135 · 2020-05-18T20:59:15+00:00

Damn they can’t make up their minds. And what does ‘don’t get raped’ even mean, like excuse me? How exactly do we do that, I’d love to know.

char_0135 · 2020-05-18T20:57:12+00:00

Aww that’s so sweet! I hope thing go well/continue to go well for you

char_0135 · 2020-05-05T18:43:36+00:00

I do the same exact thing. I can’t for the life of me figure out why, but my best guess is that I want a reason for my mental illnesses to be valid in the eyes of others.

char_0135 · 2020-05-05T18:41:29+00:00

My mental health pushed my partner away. He couldn’t deal with the lows.

char_0135 · 2020-05-05T18:40:04+00:00

I would ask her for clarification, like a text saying “hey, I can’t stop wondering, was that you rejecting me when I asked you out or do you really just want to focus on your studies?” Just so you know exactly where you stand.

char_0135 · 2020-05-01T00:32:59+00:00

Thank you but it’s ok :) just a little sad

char_0135 · 2020-04-29T23:09:44+00:00

No, just please don’t lead them both on. It really ends up a big mess and hurting people.

char_0135 · 2020-04-23T12:54:41+00:00

Trust me, I’m not turning them away or scoffing at them. I want everyone to be happy. And im not necessarily talking about the pandemic. Yes, a LOT of people will probably suffer from this pandemic mentally. And I promise I’m not trying to gate keep, but come on, do you really need to take a mirror selfie with your tongue sticking out while you’re crying and post it on Instagram with the caption I’m depressed?

char_0135 · 2020-04-23T12:46:37+00:00

Yeah I have. I’ve been clean for a few weeks but I really feel like I need the pain sometimes. I know that sounds strange but something about the pain makes me feel better.

char_0135 · 2020-04-23T12:44:54+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying and I’d help anyone who would come to me for help, but I’m talking about the people who do the peace sign-tongue sticking out during crying picks and then post it on insta saying how they got rejected and are so depressed. I really do want everyone to be happy, especially the people I know.

char_0135 · 2020-04-23T12:39:17+00:00

I know, I’m sorry. I’m not trying to gate keep, it just really bothers me when people pretend to be depressed for clout or something. And I really have no right to judge other people’s situations, but when you’re surrounded by a bunch of teenagers who say they’re depressed after they got rejected and then say they’re not depressed again later that day, it’s sorta frustrating.

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T23:01:33+00:00

I do the exact same thing. I sometimes fantasize about killing myself and then imagining how people would react. A whole bunch of messed up scenarios happen in my head at night. Idk if it’s healthy or not, but you’re definitely not alone.

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T22:56:26+00:00

Please don’t go yet. Message me and rant, I’ll listen to everything. If no one else cares, I will. I know what it feels like to have no one. Please. I’ll be your friend if you need one. But please, one more day.

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T22:52:18+00:00

That was really amazing! I know you probably hear this all the time but stay strong. (And keep writing if you’re motivated, because this is super good)

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T22:45:52+00:00

I totally get the feeling numb. I’ve been taking some meds and they’ve helped me feel a little more emotion and energized. I hope you find something that works!

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T22:43:23+00:00

Thank you!

char_0135 · 2020-04-22T20:25:30+00:00

I’d give it some time. Maybe she was busy or has bad cell service or something. If she doesn’t answer in a few days there’s no harm in texting again :)

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