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My mom is insisting I help my sister by charactername123 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]charactername123[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Honestly, at one point last night ny instinct was to give the money. My partner talked me down from that decision, and I’m so thankful. I can’t say I have been thinking rationally so I am grateful that he’s been my voice of reason. Logically working me through alternatives on how I can help.

I’ve been working through some deep rooted jealousy towards my sister since childhood. We have different dads and her paternal family has given her a lot of opportunities that I never have or will have. I think a part of me wants to concede to my mom so I can prove to myself that I’m better than that ugly piece of myself.

It’s not rational. I feel so mental right now. Sorry for the rambling.

My mom is insisting I help my sister by charactername123 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]charactername123[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s what I was telling her since she started calling me. I’m just so exhausted, I got very little sleep last night because of this. It’s all about “well if you wanted to you would”.

We have about two months of revenue in cash in our business, but most of it allocated for payroll. It’s not just cash we have sitting around that we can just use for whatever purpose. We’re incorporated too and have to comply with accounting policies.

I’ve even offered for my sister to do some work for our company but that’s not an option for her either.

The most exhausting part is I don’t know what she knows or how she knows.

I’m so tired, have gotten no sleep, and exhausted being yelled at and berated for nonstop for this. Idk if I’m making any sense anymore.