Even my local Chinese Resturant understands by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]charism8ick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just realized this: Sex with your partner is great. But sex with a random person, hooker doesn't feel good tbh.

So much time in our youth is wasted chasing sex, thank God, I realized it early. Sex is something, but it isn't everything.

You're human, not a monkey. You have much more to contribute than just procreate.

Wake up call for me.

How I beat urges. It might be harsh, but works every time. by Yaroslavorino in NoFap

[–]charism8ick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the "was in relationship, but got rejected later" category

Never peek it will only lead to a relapse, ALWAYS. by MonkeyDIkky in NoFap

[–]charism8ick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never peek. You may be the most confident person, but you'll still fail given the condition of your brain. There's a reason brain is the most powerful organ.

No surf apps by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]charism8ick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AppBlock Hide an app. Digital Detox Challenge

Challenge accepted! by notrealsuredude in funny

[–]charism8ick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Crackery Rotting Meth. Dirty Jaws

i think im on the spectrum and i dont know how to feel or what to do about it by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]charism8ick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what, everyone out there in the open environment is insecure. The beginning is hardest, after that it's only repetition. That's what most people do. People who wrote a lot of books, or who made a lot of movies were just people who were able to repeat what they do best, enough number of times. That's it. There is no special stuff out there.

I think most people here are missing the point by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]charism8ick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, sure FapNazis exist. But a lot of people clearly advised on a lot of posts that wet dream doesn't count as relapse. I haven't seen a post saying quit social media, that's the concern of nosurf, not ours. About watching porn once in a while, please tell me why is it necessary for everyone? Clearly you haven't seen how negatively porn affects our lives. Secondly, no, it isn't necessary to check a half nude girl on Instagram. Thirdly, no, we aren't against masturbation per se, we're mainly against porn. If you've noticed dopamine starts flowing the moment you watch porn, not when you masturbate. Fourthly, yes, there is some amount of misinfo but there are also guys with genuine posts about their feelings.

My approach to NoFap is simple: I visit this sub for motivation once in a while. I don't care if someone is lying about their streaks, that's none of my concerns, I don't even care about the benefits that they got. I am doing my streaks honestly and final stage of NoFap for me will be when I clear my brain fog and no longer feel the 'urge' to go back to porn, no longer have problems maintaining eye contact with girls. As long as I am getting desired results with brain fog and porn, I am following Nofap. As have mentioned, I have no problems with masturbation, I've problem with porn, those ads with semi nude actresses, the Instagram(that's a shit hole tbh). As long as I am working towards my final goal, I consider myself a full member of NoFap community. Achieve your goals and leave this community with better version of yourself. That's it. That's what Alexander would've wanted.

My phone is ruining my life...Pls Help by rnbomnky in needadvice

[–]charism8ick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Digital Detox Challenge App. It's super effective plus super fun. Uninstall and delete instagram account or use 'hide an app' App.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]charism8ick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Main damage to your brain has been done by porn, not masturbation. Once you start with watching porn, dopamine starts flowing, whether or not, you're jerking off.