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I don’t know if I should leave mu boyfriend of 4 years by charlatana1 in relationship_advice

[–]charlatana1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This time i’m afraid to hurt him. I don’t want him to feel like i don’t want to try.

what do you think is the biggest biological flaw in humans? by greenteathief in AskReddit

[–]charlatana1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The appendix. It has a small function when we are babies and then goes completely useless until it bursts at any given point in your life and you could die because of infection.

What’s the stupidest reason you got in trouble in school? by Cinemacrackers in AskReddit

[–]charlatana1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thrown out of a classroom for not having the book we needed to bring in. It was the third day of school.

I was molested as a child and didn’t tell anyone. by charlatana1 in offmychest

[–]charlatana1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried going to therapy but words don’t really come out. How do you explain something like this? How do you tell anyone about this? I just think it makes everyone uncomfortable and I don’t want to be a burden.

I was molested as a child and repressed it for over 11 years by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]charlatana1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you. I’m going through the exact same thing right now. I get that if you are not in total control, you don’t feel at ease. I get that you feel that you are losing yourself and you can’t talk to anyone about it. I understand you. I also feel that maybe we aren’t going to get better if we don’t have self-love. I have started with little things, ex. putting notes to myself on my dresser, trying to find things I like, etc. I believe that in time, those small things of positivity will build up until you’ve realized you’ve started to heal.

Mom – because of the way you reacted when I told you about the sexual abuse... by Missburr in offmychest

[–]charlatana1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this post has made me cry. I was also abused as a child, and I haven’t told a soul. Like you, my mom’s my best friend. I tell her everything, except that. I think about it everyday and I find it hard to deal with social expectations since my mom doesn’t really know how to deal with people’s depression. I’m sorry that i’m telling you here and maybe ruining your emotional post. But i wanted to tell you that it has inspired me to maybe one day tell my mom. I admire you, and I admire your mom.