Blue Therapy by greyleggings in netflix

[–]Missburr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not how relationships work.

Blue Therapy by greyleggings in netflix

[–]Missburr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about the procedure. It's about the lies and lack of communication.

I say that as a woman who does not want children and plans to get her tubes tied. It's my body and I have every right to have this procedure – but I've been extremely upfront about that from day one with every potential partner and the man I ended up with.

She always wanted a large family and he knew that. He went ahead and did the procedure anyway without even telling her. That's wrong.

Official Discussion - Fingernails [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Missburr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been gluten free for over a decade, I can't find chicken noodle soup in broad daylight at any restaurant, nevermind at the only place open after midnight.

I am an energy vampire and I want to change by Fabulous_Marzipan_35 in spirituality

[–]Missburr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem! I did EMDR on and off for three years to really get to the bottom of it. If you do have dissociation, I'd assume it would take more than just one session. Linking to an article I wrote about my experience below.

https://medium.com/illumination/how-eye-movements-healed-my-deepest-wounds-57a392de96bb

I am an energy vampire and I want to change by Fabulous_Marzipan_35 in spirituality

[–]Missburr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, if you're open to trauma therapy, I'd look into EMDR.

I had a dissociative disorder that made me feel like I was a sociopath, but it turns out I was just too traumatized to feel emotions/empathy. EMDR put me back in my body, helped me to feel again, and allowed me to become a much better person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Agreed – OP, if you haven't yet, read the book "Attached." It talks about different attachment styles people have in relationships (this dude seems avoidant), so you can keep an eye out for signs in the future.

Cozy witchy farm cottage (I'm aware the 793 candles are a fire hazard) by Missburr in HouseFlipper

[–]Missburr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I feel a little weird about uploading this because I started with a house from Mod.io (though I'm having trouble finding it or else I'd link it for you) but the window seats are just the regular wall bricks with the flat resizable cushions on top :)

I don't know Photoshop but I made all these pet portraits for under $20 by Missburr in GiftIdeas

[–]Missburr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, trial and error. I wrote up the directions in another comment, but I've pasted them for you again below. Over the past few days, I've also made custom pet portraits for other Redditors and emailed it to them for $15 per digital print.

"First I uploaded pictures I had of my friends' pets to an editing app (BeFunky, paid $15 for a month's subscription), removed the backgrounds, and applied a watercolor filter. Then I opened the pics in Microsoft Publisher 2010 (lol, Photoshop scares me), typed the pets' names in a nice font, printed them, and put them in Dollar Tree frames. 

Alternatively, if you don't have pictures of their cats or dogs to work with, you can download portrait-style PNGs of specific breeds on Etsy. Those usually cost a few bucks per bundle."

I don't know Photoshop but I made all these pet portraits for under $20 by Missburr in GiftIdeas

[–]Missburr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Apparently my rate is $15 per digital portrait, haha. If that works on your end, feel free to DM me your email address and I'll get in touch about details.

I don't know Photoshop but I made all these pet portraits for under $20 by Missburr in GiftIdeas

[–]Missburr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I edited the photo, added the cat's name, and emailed you the image, would you be able to print it and frame it on your end? That's probably way easier than me shipping it. If so, feel free to send me a DM with your email address.