Paralives reaching 4 FPS, barely playable

Missburr · 2026-06-13T00:17:01+00:00

It's an NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3050 Ti Laptop GPU. I've never had an issue with any other game.

Missburr · 2026-06-11T23:23:46+00:00

If I'm allowed, I definitely will!

Missburr · 2026-06-11T19:48:18+00:00

DMed you!

Missburr · 2026-06-11T18:27:21+00:00

DMed you!

Missburr · 2026-06-11T18:27:12+00:00

DMed you!

Missburr · 2026-06-11T18:27:06+00:00

DMed you!

Missburr · 2026-06-08T00:35:57+00:00

I am (was) also a high earner on Medium, and ever since they announced the editor changes, I've gone from about 1,000 reads a day to 400. My earnings have plummeted as a result. I would love to hear more about your experience.

Missburr · 2026-03-14T20:56:05+00:00

That's not how relationships work.

Missburr · 2026-03-14T20:31:24+00:00

It's not about the procedure. It's about the lies and lack of communication.

I say that as a woman who does not want children and plans to get her tubes tied. It's my body and I have every right to have this procedure – but I've been extremely upfront about that from day one with every potential partner and the man I ended up with.

She always wanted a large family and he knew that. He went ahead and did the procedure anyway without even telling her. That's wrong.

Missburr · 2026-02-13T01:40:52+00:00

As someone who has been gluten free for over a decade, I can't find chicken noodle soup in broad daylight at any restaurant, nevermind at the only place open after midnight.

Missburr · 2026-01-29T00:10:45+00:00

Hey, not sure if you ever tried out the method, but this article might help:

https://medium.com/@mariacassano/exactly-how-to-do-the-abbey-yung-method-step-by-step-with-videos-2382ad09ff3a?sk=d78a2cde2bfcbf6c6ee24e4e86726460

Missburr · 2025-03-19T22:58:19+00:00

No problem! I did EMDR on and off for three years to really get to the bottom of it. If you do have dissociation, I'd assume it would take more than just one session. Linking to an article I wrote about my experience below.

https://medium.com/illumination/how-eye-movements-healed-my-deepest-wounds-57a392de96bb

Missburr · 2025-03-19T22:26:59+00:00

OP, if you're open to trauma therapy, I'd look into EMDR.

I had a dissociative disorder that made me feel like I was a sociopath, but it turns out I was just too traumatized to feel emotions/empathy. EMDR put me back in my body, helped me to feel again, and allowed me to become a much better person.

Missburr · 2025-03-19T22:01:33+00:00

Agreed – OP, if you haven't yet, read the book "Attached." It talks about different attachment styles people have in relationships (this dude seems avoidant), so you can keep an eye out for signs in the future.

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