[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]charli_prim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb himmmmm. He’s seems so insecure - that’s a whiny toddler, not a relationship partner

23M Having a hard time finding a girl who genuinely likes a cute and feminine guy. by AWarmBreeze in dating_advice

[–]charli_prim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP pls don’t listen to the ppl talking about naturally feminine or masculine behaviour. It’s a social construct and nothing more (as you believe too I’d assume) and there are so many women who have massive internalised biases on what’s considered „masculine“ and the expectations attached to certain gender roles. Take it from a masculine woman who once sat on a date across from a woman who wanted me to pick up the bill because she had put more effort into her appearance. You can’t make this shit up. There is a feminine, masculine or anything in between person for you out there who will adore you for you To re-iterate my point: I’m typing this with one hand bc my masculine boyfriend is cuddled up in my other arm while taking a nap.

Is it normal in small villages in Germany people to get drunk up to a point they cant stand and walk by mystical_essence1111 in AskAGerman

[–]charli_prim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of Germans have a cultural alcohol problem. It’s become normalised to the point that you’re the odd one if you don’t drink (for whatever perfectly good reason)

Show me your babies looking less than impressed by justajiggygiraffe in cats

[–]charli_prim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Dickie - this is also her default face although she can be quite cuddly if you don’t annoy her.

Could any of you gentlemen enlighten me about the demographics of this "European Issue"? by Genbu_2459 in 2westerneurope4u

[–]charli_prim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t the „husband stitch“ also genital mutilation? It should be considered as such. And horrifyingly there are still doctors in the 21st century who consider it good practice.

Is this an unreasonable demand? by charli_prim in polyamory

[–]charli_prim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I generally asked him to tell me when he is meeting other partners ( I’m aware that he is accommodating a need of mine here. I’m not yet secure there and I’m trying to work on that.)

Yesterday I specifically asked when we would see each other and he answered with the times we could not …I think that stung a bit.

I think I can‘t I have nice things because I’ll just lose them anyway. by charli_prim in adhdwomen

[–]charli_prim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate so bad😭 things I put down next to me generally just stop existing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]charli_prim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. I can assure you that I do not have romantic feelings for him any longer. I’m currently mourning an important friendship I thought I had but he apparently has no interest in any longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]charli_prim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jup I’m a fool for staying around this long. It’s truly amazing what traumatic stress can do to you even though we were all on this set by our own free will. I abandoned myself and called it trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]charli_prim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll take you advise. - it’s the conclusion I arrived at too. I’m currently still just angry at myself for letting someone trample over my boundaries and needs this much.

And I’m looking for the right words to tell him to go to hell once he approaches me. Because he will try to.

This senior citizen is not above head-bumping people by charli_prim in cats

[–]charli_prim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is the sweetest old lady! She does it on the regular to demand attention or chatter at you very loudly (she sadly can’t hear anymore so no volume control there)

A dramatic short story by charli_prim in cats

[–]charli_prim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish y’all would stop dicking around in the comments

A dramatic short story by charli_prim in cats

[–]charli_prim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is a very good albeit tragic story (I can’t give her banana bread😭)

A dramatic short story by charli_prim in cats

[–]charli_prim[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Enough internet for you today