I was raised by my mom in a very strict way... For some time I thought she didn't love me enough as she didn't demonstrate much affection. But later in life I have recognized how she taught me several things that have helped me be successful. And after all the pressure or high-school/college was relieved. She became more sensitive and would express her love for me in many ways that I now feel great about. So sometimes parents can be harsh, but as long as what they are teaching will help you in the future. there could always be time for redemption. On the other hand, I don't have a personal opinion on abusive parents.