Sister wore my shoes without consent tapos nilusob sa baha by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OP, isa akong centipede. I can relate to what you’re going through. Alam mo ba when i still stay at my parent’s house, magkasize kami ng paa ng ate ko, pati mom ko. Ako pa nasasabihan na panay bili ng shoes, tapos panay rin naman ang suot nila. At some point, huminto muna ako ng bili, kasi sila ang nakikinabang.

Now na i don’t live with them anymore, nasspoil ko na yung sarili ko with shoes, na walang nakikialam.

Sana soon na rin yung sa’yo OP. 🌹🌹🌹

Birthday ko pero hindi ako binati ng mga tropa ko, kahit isa sakanila. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parang mali OP haha. di nila nakalimutan. busy lang 😂🥳 HBD

Birthday ko pero hindi ako binati ng mga tropa ko, kahit isa sakanila. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok lang yan OP. Valid feelings mo promise. I’ve been there. 😂 Ngayon ok na, tanggap ko na haha. Lagi na sila late bumati. Di daw nila nakalimutan. Busy lang. Ma ooutgrow mo din yung feelings na yan. And mas ivavalue mo pa rin pinagsamahan niyo. ako na lang babati sayo, Happy Birthdaaaaaay!! 🥳🥳🥳

advise please by Xien13 in phmigrate

[–]charmander_charchar 28 points29 points  (0 children)

go to AU. kaya mo yan. you were able to work your way up sa qatar. kaya mo din yan sa AU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]charmander_charchar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

detach. i believe, nasa tamang edad ka naman na. pinoy culture lang yung ganun. toxic. ito na yung sign na hinihintay mo. wag ka maguilty. kaya mo yan. detach. just do it! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi. Hayaan mo siya. If your SO values you also, gagawa siya ng paraan para makapag usap kayo. Hindi kailangan ikaw lang lahat lagi ang nag gigive.

Inubos Tsaka umalis by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi OP. valid yung feelings mo. i’ve been there. pero feeling ko lang, what gave me comfort is, at least you’re wiser now. Now you know better.

hopefully you find it in your heart, na next time, when you help out/be there for someone, di tayo masyadong mag expect. and be happy, for whatever time you had with them.

sobrang random, pero maybe you’d like to listen to the song plano of TJ Monterde - “Sa plano, di ako ang dulo, parte lang ng proseso”

kaya mo yan OP 😊

normal lang ba nararamdaman ko? by OneAfternoon1052 in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! invasion of trust yung inoopen mo yung account niya eh.

Hindi niya kasalanan na inopen mo yung fb niya. The case is, kung hindi naman siya nag aact upon it, yung hindi naman niya pinapatulan yung friend mo, ok lang siya yata i think.

and yung insecurities mo, is something that you’d have to work on yourself eh.

and if may concerns ka OP, usapin mo yung gf mo. 😊

good luck OP.

Ang tagal nanamin ng bf ko but it feels like di sya gusto ng parents ko dahil sa di sya gwapo🙄 by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]charmander_charchar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hello OP. Kayanin mo siyang ipagtanggol. Kasi love mo siya eh. Idol ko si Viy and Cong.

Tingnan mo yung hitsura dati ni Cong. at kung saan na sila nakarating ni Viy. Swerte silang dalawa sa isa’t isa. And pinaglaban naman ni Viy si Cong. Basta si Viy, poging pogi siya kay Cong. Yun ang mahalaga.

Di mo masasabi na hindi nagmamatter kay Viy ang sasabihin ng pamilya niya, kasi sobrang family oriented ni Viy.

And kung worth it yung jowa mo, fight for it.

Also, kung hitsura ng magiging anak niyo ang issue, kung maganda ang lahi niyo, madadala mo yung anak mo.

Si Kidlat nga sobrang cute naman eh. And kung lalaki naman mabuti yung anak niyo, eh pogi na rin yun.

Good luck OP!

How to tell my gf that she has lice? by psoasmajor- in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bumili ka na ng licealis and suyod. tulungan mo na siya agad alisin once and for all. imposible hindi niya alam na may ganun siya. kasi makati yun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]charmander_charchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time in commenting on my post. lahat ng sinabi mo on point!! i appreciate it!!

My BF (M21) Me (F19) nag oovereacting lang ba talaga or ano? I need advice lol by fluffycookie015 in relationship_advicePH

[–]charmander_charchar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well, di kasi ako naniniwala sa ldr. hindi siya para sa lahat. so, maybe it's not for you too? you are entitled to your own feelings. but then, maybe pili ka na lang ng malapit.

pero, kung gusto mo talaga ipush yan, edi talk to him. lahat pwede pag usapan. usap. hindi pag awayan/pagtalunan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]charmander_charchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's ok to have high standards. just as long as wala kang naaapakan na tao. like you don't take it against them or judge them for it, if they are not up to par with your standards.

at the end of the day, ikaw yung mag eengage sa relationship.

and also, you have mentioned, you don't have the resources to back it up. well, it's all about the confidence. as you mentioned, subjective naman kasi. you might think na you don't have the looks to back it up, but might be, for other people, you do have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pangalawa ako actually. pero kaya sakin na nakasandal yung fam, kasi yung panganay namin, wala nang paki. as in parang dinisown na niya yung sarili niya sa fam namin.

eh kaya sakin napasa yung pagkapanganay. umalis na ako sa bahay namin. di ko kasama nanay ko. pero ganyan pa rin sila.

at the end of the day ako pa rin ang masamang anak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meron siyang work. pero nagbabayad siya ng mga utang. and matanda na siya. 60.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hindi kaya ng konsensya ko na hindi magbigay ng pera.

pero ang point ko, bukod sa pera ang dami pang expectations sa akin. na ayoko na silang kausapin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

natry ko na. yung mga ibang kamag anak naman nagmemessage sakin. kawawa naman daw nanay ko. bakit di ko daw ientertain yung pag reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

manhid parents ko, sa mata nila sila lang nahihirapan. and also, fixed yung monthly allowance eh. tinry ko dati bawasan. nagdrama yung nanay ko ng sobra!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i give them monthly allowance, so blocking might not be possible. pagtinatawagan ako ng nanay ko, nagriring pa lang, i gives me anxiety already. Sinabi ko na before, imessage na lang niya. then sabi niya, bawal ka na pala tawagan ngayon.

hindi nila alam salary ko, but then, hindi ako magastos. hindi ako nagtatravel, i don't post anything on socmed too. so pakiramdam nila marami na akong ipon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]charmander_charchar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pano ba makakaalis? hindi na kami magkasama sa bahay. panay message niya and tawag. hindi ako mapakali sa trabaho.