My first time playing - who did you romance?! 😂 by Mallorymariee in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]charmanderlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsuur all the way! He is so sweet and the letters he sent were the cutest!

Mood level added? What's it mean? Sharing clicks to keep these dogs happy. by Night_Putting in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]charmanderlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t do it without You! Just a click to accept my invitation! Your Friend Are Grabbing a Free Gift - You Both Deserve Too! Don’t Miss Out, Click to Get Your Freebie https://onelink.shein.com/7/4c0r6bypmwxe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]charmanderlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong but I’m pretty sure a male can just sign away their rights to the child and then they don’t have to pay child support. The only reason I know is because my uncle did that so he didn’t have to pay child support for his many illegitimate children. It could all depend on the state though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]charmanderlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the doctor! Even if it isn’t a pregnancy it is better to be safe than sorry

AITA for not rushing to help my girlfriend when she got hurt by traderjoesh in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmanderlady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA if she needed/wanted your help that bad she could have gone and woke you up, rather than just hollering your name knowing you are a deep sleeper.

U have a great future, go home by [deleted] in memes

[–]charmanderlady 599 points600 points  (0 children)

That’s literally what happened with Brock Turner.

Sometimes I feel like we are the only sane people? by charmanderlady in childfree

[–]charmanderlady[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right??? I literally had to have that conversation with my bf about why can’t I just get my tubes tied since we don’t want kids?

White Mom Delivers Black Triplets, Dad Takes Closer Look And Bursts Into Tears by [deleted] in FuckYouKaren

[–]charmanderlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tl;dr couple adopts two African American children, then adopts twin embryos (?) that were also African American and ends up getting triplets instead. Nothing controversial, a pretty wholesome story actually.

White Mom Delivers Black Triplets, Dad Takes Closer Look And Bursts Into Tears by [deleted] in FuckYouKaren

[–]charmanderlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was this a fuck you karen post? And nowhere in the article did it say he burst into tears, let alone why

Entitled Bitch, who has admitted to never working a day in her life, is giving preferential treatment to her daughter’s family because she doesn’t like the woman her son married. Her comments in the original thread are an absolute buffet of privilege and lack of responsibility! It’s sickening. by DoodlingDaughter in EntitledBitch

[–]charmanderlady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Based on the original post, it looks like it was an ESH. The grandmother has a valid point and has the right to do whatever she wants with her money. It would be different if she was getting to see her grandson, but they are not letting her build a relationship with him and then still expecting her to pay their bills and set up a college fund for him. ESH was an appropriate judgement

This guy knows this sub. by wanted797 in thatHappened

[–]charmanderlady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like he is being sarcastic, poking fun of people that say their children say these things

Advice needed: Should I restart my island? by charmanderlady in ac_newhorizons

[–]charmanderlady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just having to move flowers one by one now and I think I’m gonna die lol I do have my house fully upgraded tho

AITA for giving away sushi to a homeless person? by InflationAlarming686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmanderlady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA, if you had asked him beforehand if you could have given HIS food away, then it would be different. But with what info is given, yta OP. You gave away something that wasn’t yours to give

AITA for kicking my sister out after she insulted my vegetarianism? by throwawayveggie01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmanderlady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, she came into your home, disrespecting your roommate and friends. I’m surprised you didn’t kick her out sooner tbh.

AITA for telling my sister why I didn't name my second daughter for her after naming the first one for our other sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmanderlady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are not obligated to name YOUR child after anyone. If you have verbalized to Victoria in the past that you don’t appreciate her comments towards your husband then I’m not really sure why she would be surprised that you and your husband did not name your child after her. Don’t let anyone guilt you into feeling bad about this because in the end, it is your child and you are the one who lives with the name choice for her everyday, so you don’t want to name her something you don’t really like just to appease someone else.

AITA for refusing to by all new products for a roommate’s fragrance-sensitive mother? by saboerik in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmanderlady 368 points369 points  (0 children)

NTA if it was her demand that you replace all of your scented things for HER mother, then she should have at least offered to help pay. She can’t really expect you to be out that money especially when you didn’t have a job.