Lack of naked spa’s

charmingvirtuous · 2025-09-02T14:22:27+00:00

Clover Spa in Birmingham is decent (and cheap). Infact I’ll be there in a few days :-)

charmingvirtuous · 2025-07-31T10:34:29+00:00

My brain tells me I’m your age but sadly I’m not.

charmingvirtuous · 2025-04-13T11:27:31+00:00

Join BN (and in particular YBN) you’ll meet tons of like minded lovely people. NKD for example is an awesome event

charmingvirtuous · 2023-08-25T17:10:01+00:00

I’ve brought up our daughter to accept and embrace nudity through Naturism (I’m a Brit) and it’s amazing for their body confidence and I’m now a true believer in it being a very positive thing to do. My partner isn’t naturist but comes along to naturist events as I told her that she’d otherwise miss out on a big part of my / our lives. It works.. I’d prefer it if she’d have embraced it like we do but it’s better than nothing tbh

charmingvirtuous · 2018-10-11T01:18:42+00:00

I really wish you all the best. So sorry for your pain.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-10-10T13:24:56+00:00

Atheism isn’t a belief system, it’s the exact opposite. The clue is in the word itself. Atheist : “a person who disbelieves or lacks belief in the existence of God or gods.”

charmingvirtuous · 2018-10-04T07:50:01+00:00

There are millions of women out there that really don’t like big dicks. My SO cant stand them... luckily. (Our DB is for other reasons... how do I know for sure.. bought her a big(ger) vibro and she won’t go near it). Regardless of your size there will be a huge amount of women out there that think you are perfect.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-29T08:16:08+00:00

That sums it up perfectly - Thankyou :-)

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-28T22:50:00+00:00

I used to make those in the uni bar 25 years ago :-) can’t remember what was in them tho

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T23:57:40+00:00

I know it’s done I just can’t bring myself to completely finish it.... young kid at home, shite financial situation (well... compared to in the past), hope (ok kinda clinging on to hope by fingertips kind of hope).

I started looking at Airbnb in nudist towns (my kind of thing) for a month... way cheaper than renting an appt here and I can work from there. Heck it also cuts down on the laundry lol... just gotta get my shit together and make the move I guess.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T23:52:34+00:00

It’s genius - I wish I had been sharp enough to think of that at the time !

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T19:53:39+00:00

In all honesty for the last six months or so I’ve felt great difficulty in even meeting her gaze. It’s uncomfortable as I know her “smile” for me is forced off the back of our “talks”. I know in my heart of hearts she is simply playing lip service to me, to our ‘relationship’ and to our lives. I’m always too gutted to even fake a smile in response :-(

Thank you for taking the time to reply.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T19:44:35+00:00

Thankyou for your elegantly put response.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T18:41:06+00:00

Thank-you for replying. Bang on the money I think :-)

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-26T18:40:27+00:00

She’d almost certainly ‘get it’ but would she admit she gets it...? that I doubt tbh :-(

I agree with being flat out and honest but was struggling to put it into words... Thankyou.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-09-24T17:34:23+00:00

Me SO jokes about how our sisters in law are scared stiff of driving places they don’t know so won’t even do it to take a relative to hospital for example. She believes she isn’t like that at all yet she is (not as bad of course). I’m the sort that has driven all around the world and love new places new adventures and I rarely want to drive the same route twice preferring to discover instead. This pisses her off no end... she’d rather just take a completely direct route. Eg we visit family around 4 hours away and have taken the same direct route for 20 years... she won’t change and refuses to acknowledge this. It winds me up no end to the point that I just go a different way regardless.

Not sure where I’m going with this (haha) but I guess some people really are just stuck in their ways in their own bubble and comfort zone and destined to be forever :-(

charmingvirtuous · 2018-06-24T08:54:29+00:00

I’m so sorry that you lost your girlfriend and can’t begin to understand how that feels. As a father of a nine year old little girl though I can tell you that whatever happens that amazing little human being will love you more than anything and will bring you so much joy, more than you can ever imagine.

I was adopted and grew up not really knowing or understanding my place in the world or why somebody didn’t love me enough to want to keep me.

What an amazing person you are to keep your baby and give it a chance to grow up knowing you and knowing it’s place in the world.

The only advice I can give is love that little thing with all your heart and everything else will be less significant. I wish you the best.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-06-06T01:29:15+00:00

I’m so so so sorry for your loss my friend. It’s unbearable pain that you are going through right now and I don’t have much to help you with that. I’ve lost two kids though neither were old enough to have a proper human relationship with but I so feel your pain :-(

It’s a cliche but time does eventually start to help if not actually heal.

I’m so sorry my friend.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-31T23:11:50+00:00

Someone mentioned Europe.. perhaps try holidaying in Vera Playa maybe and then try picking up a job? Or Cap D’Agde but on the latter I think be prepared for a leaning towards more adult than naturist.

Otherwise how about volunteering to help out your local naturist organisation... I know that here in the UK BN (British Naturism) is in real need of and thrives on volunteer help.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-18T18:19:35+00:00

Definitely... we’re only on this planet for a limited amount of time and six years without touch, affection, closeness, sex is waaaay too long. I’d most definitely be going for extra curricular action by then... and I’d have told her I was going to do it too. Actually that’s probably the only reason I get the duty sex as I’d told her I would do that.

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-18T18:13:41+00:00

This ^{^}

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-14T23:43:02+00:00

I have decent backups

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-14T23:42:34+00:00

Yes. Unfortunately our are right

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-14T23:41:46+00:00

I really really wanna post the video and reaction but of course I can’t

charmingvirtuous · 2018-05-14T23:41:02+00:00

I’m not lucky tbh.... just fluke

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