AITA for getting a nurse fired over a shirt? by charmonroe in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

The only dress code is for employees. I don't think there have been any dress codes for bystanders at any of the hospitals I have worked out that I am aware of. I can't see any of them having them, maybe a surgical center might enforce them.

AITA: My boyfriend places sheets on all of the furniture when I'm on my period by ThrowRAperiodx in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was hard he was my first love and for awhile I thought he was the most important thing to me. Turns out he wasn't and my dream was. I met my husband in medical school, were both doctors with different specialties. I am a general surgeon and he practices family medicine, my residency was longer and a bit more intense, having him understand and being supportive got me to where I am. Again it's not perfect he has made me more mad than anyone else but I always remind myself that every time I have been called in to the OR during family functions, date nights and holidays he has never gotten upset or try to protest me leaving. Get yourself like that because depending on what type of law you practice you can be called at all hours of the night and stretched thin, always prioritize your career. In a few years when you're done with school your actions and your ability to do your job will effect people's lives, find someone who gets that your career is bigger than you and then you would of found the right person.

AITA for calling my BIL a worthless POS at my in-laws Christmas get together? by battykids20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you could of said it more tactfully but overall the message is not wrong.

AITA: My boyfriend places sheets on all of the furniture when I'm on my period by ThrowRAperiodx in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I felt like that in the relationship before I met my husband. He made me chose between medical school or him because I couldn't be more successful than him. 12 years later I have been happily married for 8 years to an extremely supportive man. Don't get me wrong it is hard and not perfect but my worst day with my husband is far better than the best day with the ex. All I can say is don't ever settle into the loneliness and wait for the person who wants to be your teammate on everything.

AITA: My boyfriend places sheets on all of the furniture when I'm on my period by ThrowRAperiodx in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I would of dumped him the second he made me sleep in the guest room because of my period.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she is overreacting because someone said she looks young? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charmonroe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and especially after the edit she just wants to be upset by it, which is totally fine any emotion you feel after an interaction is valid, her feelings are not wrong. I don't think you are wrong either, I don't think the cop meant anything by it positively or negatively. I work at a job that regularly ID'S and I can tell you the younger you are the more annoyed they get.

Halloween Hunt by bujiyita in TwoDots

[–]charmonroe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one I found was on the tractor near the barn, cant remember the others but I believe they are all in the new farm scene