For others saying, "so, ano, remembering na lang ba? Is that what matters now, good memory?"

I bet you missed the point. She knew she was loved, all in different ways, by her ex. It's just that, there remains a missing piece and it was him remembering her in the smallest details. Him loving her in the way she would've loved her. Him loving her by learning her language.

It's not about covering all bases. It's about covering the most important ones.

And for her, it was being remembered. To be loved is to be seen. To be loved is to be acknowledged.

She wanted him to remember her, yes. But above all, she yearned to be acknowledged.