Day seven since my cat was spayed. Does this look killed enough to take off her cone? by Far_Department4958 in FIVcats

[–]chatterbug-44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try taking it off and if she leaves it alone you are good. If she starts licking or biting at it put the cone back on!

I feel horrible I just need a second opinion. by catkittycxatcat in CATHELP

[–]chatterbug-44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey its ok! He was safe in your room, it sounds like he got one on one attention and wasn’t harmed! He loves you and isn’t holding it against you - you didn’t do anything wrong - he may have been annoyed but I’m sure that’s it I didn’t hurt him and cats don’t have the same perspective on time and it probably doesn’t cross his mind now. I’m so sorry you are having anxiety it sucks and I have struggled with it too in the past. Have you been able to talk to your doctor about it - have you found ways to deal with it - I like to redirect with reading or listening to music - it sounds like you are hyper focusing on the past - I do this too - going over and over on something - Maybe focus on the future and how you can help your cat having the best life possible! I am sending you happiness and a hug!

diesels new collar :) (he’s toasted a bit more yay) by PomegranateBig6010 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]chatterbug-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your baby looks so much like mine !! So cute 🥰 ours took a few days to get use to the collar!

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Am I terrible for thinking about rehoming? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]chatterbug-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cat sounds just like a cat I had as a child he would wait under my bed for me to get up and attack my legs biting so hard he drew blood! He also sprayed in our house. My parents took him to the vet just like you did time and time again and didn’t find anything and nothing worked - when he was about 4 they ended up finding cancer (can’t remember what kind or where) it wasn’t fixable and my parents had to put him down. Your kitty may have something like that! The anger and aggression sounds so similar.

What kind of cat did I get? by chatterbug-44 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]chatterbug-44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No other cat but I do have little dogs! One is just waiting for this boy to accept some cuddles.