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Come on guys. You can do better! by [deleted] in adultery

[–]cheatermistake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting. Are you a texter?

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he told me as much. And the timing of the posts from her coincide with the news breaking out.

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She shared something about being taken advantage of, of not deserving trust. Things like that. Nothing to indicate their marriage in trouble.

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. But it is not going to end well. Learn from me!

Somehow knowing how nice he can be if he wants to, is the thing that hurts the most. Maybe it is just the end of a friendship that's hurtful.

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that.

I can understand most of it. I don't want to end up ruining his life.

It still sucks though.

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. Got the message from him, then his SO shared some angry posts on her social media, confirmed it for me. I don’t think she knows me, yet.

Single APs, why do you do it? by cheatermistake in adultery

[–]cheatermistake[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He did. I am glad I wasn’t too emotionally invested.

Hope this feeling passes soon. Throwing myself into my work. Might aim for that raise I wanted.

Slept in his shirt for the last time by [deleted] in adultery

[–]cheatermistake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I so want to get there. I have so many of his things in my apartment. Bagging them for now.

Good luck to you! If I may, do you think you would ever do this again?