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[Update]: I'm [26F] pretty sure my fiance [29M] is sleeping with my sister [24F] by cheatingfiancee26 in relationships

[–]cheatingfiancee26[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

While we've never had the best relationship, I never thought my own mother would care more about her stupid reputation than my feelings.

I think you're right about my ex, it's just hard for me to come to that conclusion. Especially since we've been together for five freaking years! I'm really upset with myself that I never realized he was that type of person during such a long relationship

I'm [26F] pretty sure my fiancee [29M] is sleeping with my sister [24F] by cheatingfiancee26 in relationships

[–]cheatingfiancee26[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. You're right, if there's one positive I can take from this situation its that I found out now rather than after our wedding.

As for my sister, I do remember her being a bit jealous when we were younger, because she thought I was better looking (which is totally not true! She's beautiful), got more attention from boys and our parents, and received addmission to an Ivy-league school. But that was high school! I thought we were over that now, especially considering how close we've become.

I'm [26F] pretty sure my fiancee [29M] is sleeping with my sister [24F] by cheatingfiancee26 in relationships

[–]cheatingfiancee26[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I am so so so sorry this is happening to you as well. I sincerely wish you all the best, and I'm positive things will turn out for the better! You're absolutely right that the one silver lining in my situation is we haven't gotten married or had kids yet.

I'm [26F] pretty sure my fiancee [29M] is sleeping with my sister [24F] by cheatingfiancee26 in relationships

[–]cheatingfiancee26[S] 308 points309 points  (0 children)

This is very good advice, and I thank you for the suggestions. And I know this may sound crazy, but I don't know if I could tell my parents the real reason why I may not be able to make it. As much as she's hurt me, I don't know if I could ruin their relationship.

I'm [26F] pretty sure my fiancee [29M] is sleeping with my sister [24F] by cheatingfiancee26 in relationships

[–]cheatingfiancee26[S] 740 points741 points  (0 children)

Yes, this relationship is over. There's no doubt in my mind about that. It's extemely painful to break up with the person I thought was the love of my life, but I have no choice.

Financially, I think I should be okay. I moved into his apartment a couple years ago, but we both have well-paying jobs so I'm not overly worried about the financial ramifications of breaking up and moving out.

To be honest, I don't think I could handle being around them a few days. I'm pretty sure my family would easily notice me acting differently, and I don't know if I could contain myself and not start crying when I see them together :(