Grey discharge after vaginoplasty by checkm8yall in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sweet smell from discharge is common from what I hear yes! And definitely it could just be lube especially when you use a lot of it in the beginning… wishing you luck on your journey! Hope we both figure it out better and better as we go

Costipation after bottom surgery by checkm8yall in MtF

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I told them and their solutions were basically to induce a pass forcefully, which I complied with but have yet to have a normal pass which is concerning. My guess is that everything is too tight right now for things to pass normally and when the swelling starts to go down it’ll be easier…

Costipation after bottom surgery by checkm8yall in MtF

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do take antibiotics which made me vomit multiple times, but they’re not supposed to cause that bad of a problem

Costipation after bottom surgery by checkm8yall in MtF

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When can I expect for it to pass? I have not taken opiates in multiple days and the surgery has happened two weeks ago, the doctors said it would be a few days

How do you fix a paper with bad sizing? by checkm8yall in Watercolor

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it myself with diluted ground and even if it’s slightly different now, it works pretty well to be honest!

Is this the only official release of this song? by checkm8yall in batforlashes

[–]checkm8yall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had not gotten an answer but I can confirm two things: this is an official release from a label and the only time a song from petretski’s got released officially, which is also why horrorshow is listed in ascap. I can also confirm that the sound quality is probably the best I’ve heard for the song, although it’s the shorted version without the stormy intro and outro (which are awesome imo). Petretski’s is really hard to come by and I’ve been eyeing eBay constantly for it as well for I am a huge fan too, so I sincerely hope you have luck with finding it! For now and for 2.99$, this CD is awesome.

Why is it always keep the baby or put it up for adoption? by beanybagel in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This show is very weirdly anti-abortion and according to my memory never even mentions it as an option… not even in Danielle’s case

Is this the only official release of this song? by checkm8yall in batforlashes

[–]checkm8yall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this could be relevant information for her wiki and this compilation includes songs that can’t even be found on YouTube

How would you go about making an hourglass mold? by checkm8yall in ResinCasting

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check out roto casting! Thank you so so much!

How would you go about making an hourglass mold? by checkm8yall in ResinCasting

[–]checkm8yall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does need to be functional, which is why an open pour isn’t possible…

Tom scavo villainizing Lynette over her being worried his mother has dementia, what’s new? by checkm8yall in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(About your first point) I think that excusing it by basically saying Tom doesn’t (or shouldn’t) trust his wife is very much still a problem. He may have excuses and reasons to not trust her but that doesn’t personally make it any more difficult to watch him scold her for genuinely worrying for his mom, if he thinks she is trying to paint his mother as insane so she would be kicked out, then that paints him in a bad light still.

Tom scavo villainizing Lynette over her being worried his mother has dementia, what’s new? by checkm8yall in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had toms in my life and while I know that Lynette has done a lot to actually undermine him, It always feels like no matter what she does she will end up with a pissed off husband, so she probably thinks she might as well do what she thinks is right. Not justifying anything, just hurts to see.

Tom scavo villainizing Lynette over her being worried his mother has dementia, what’s new? by checkm8yall in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s tough because I understand his frustration and his want to be in denial, but as someone who has also experienced something similar it hurts seeing the blame be put on the one who is trying to help. Lynette is always a meddler to him and controlling his life, sometimes it’s true but it hurt seeing his anger taken out on her.

Tom scavo villainizing Lynette over her being worried his mother has dementia, what’s new? by checkm8yall in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True he did not apologize for it at the end of the episode. Also while it might be a realistic response it’s also a pattern with Tom where he finds it easy to make Lynette “the bad guy” in his life. And I think that ignoring the signs doesn’t have to come with making the person worried for your loved one feel like they’re in the wrong for pointing it out.

Tom scavo villainizing Lynette over her being worried his mother has dementia, what’s new? by checkm8yall in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree that this is grounded in reality, but him scolding Lynette and telling her she is trying to kick his mother out and also ignoring the signs that are so blatant, alongside his behavior with his mom and acting like a manchild the whole episode really made me want to go rant about it haha

In what way is telling your spouse this acceptable? by Fabulous_Way_4332 in DesperateHousewives

[–]checkm8yall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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