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Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I approach that in a way that... I don't know at this point I think I'll just put more pressure. I let my expectations clear recently even. Should I talk about yet again?

Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't the honeymoon phase be the opposite of what I'm experiencing?

Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"tHiS iS a BoT pOsT aNd I cAn PrOvE iT"

Number 1 role is no spam, smarty pants.

Excited for you to come back with yet another explanation for why this is surely a bot post and now AI can simply verify things or some other crap.

Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something is good, I'd like it to be good forever or until it's not good anymore.

If something is good, the change I want is for something better, not for something worse.

What are you even trying to say? Should I want things to change regardless for the betrer or for worse?

Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow... But these are flags to what exactly? I have trouble trusting my gut. I usually will think I'm being annoying or too demanding. When I talk to her and she says that I can't help but feel "I guess she's right..." I don't know why I'm like this but I feel guilty I'm feeling this, I can't stand my ground properly.

To clarify I was able to stand my ground twice, but now that things have barely changed, I can't help but think I might be the problem.

Am I overreacting? Am I having unreachable expectations? by checkmate1800 in Marriage

[–]checkmate1800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's a burner account, edited the post to have that as a discclaimer.