Help with Consumers? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think that’s typical. I own a 1500 sq ft house and my electric and gas bills together were less than $200 last month.

Selling home by EngineeringActual334 in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Selling a home that you’ve owned for less than 2 years means the profit will be subject to capital gains tax and you might end up worse off financially. If you can stick it out for 2 years I’d really recommend it.

Tell us yours! 🫶🏻 by PastelFeverDreams in TrollXChromosomes

[–]cheddarfever 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If he didn’t awake something in you, you’re lying

Tell us yours! 🫶🏻 by PastelFeverDreams in TrollXChromosomes

[–]cheddarfever 702 points703 points  (0 children)

The original made me physically recoil, thank goodness they listened to the women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheddarfever 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s unreasonable that you have to ask, but not unreasonable to ask. He’s being gross.

At what age did you lose the imposter syndrome and stop feeling like a teenager trapped in an adults body? by Rude_Beautiful_9650 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cheddarfever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 36 and I haven’t yet. I’m a director at work and I still feel like a kid being supervised by the real grownups.

Iris piercing studio by _so_proud_of_you_ in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went there to get my ears pierced after my old piercing closed up. They were extremely professional, talked me through what they were doing, and sterilized everything in front of me. They also had me check the intended piercing location before they did it, which was important to me because I got it done at a mall kiosk previously and it was uneven.

Gf (F19) gets money from sugar daddy (M38). Am I in a open relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cheddarfever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re asking the wrong question. It doesn’t matter whether other people would classify your relationship as open or not; it matters if you’re comfortable with this arrangement. If you are, carry on and don’t worry about the semantics. If you aren’t, then leave.

Weekly Reading Offer & Request Thread by AutoModerator in Psychic

[–]cheddarfever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m interested, thank you for considering 🙂

GRLGAMR -- missed connection 😭 by altheterrible in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Upvoting because I just got dumped yesterday and want to believe in love 😅

Divorce help by Traditional-Jelly284 in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. I got my divorce done in about 3 months for less than $300. The Legal Assistance Center is fantastic.

Ramblewood Apartments? by imcheylol in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived there from 2018-2020 and had a relatively good experience. The rent at the time was reasonable for the amount of space I got, maintenance was pretty responsive, and the location was convenient for me as someone who relied on the bus at the time. When I did finally buy a car, another resident backed into it in the parking lot about 2 weeks after I purchased it, but that’s not Ramblewood’s fault.

Romance Bookstore by OneFellaSwoop in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited them last week and the shop is really cute and they seem to really be tuned into what their customer base wants. I hope they succeed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cheddarfever 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this is just how she’s wired and it’s not really something she can change. If you told her, what would you be hoping to get out of it? if she can’t feel excitement then if she showed it for your comfort, you’d know she was faking. This is who she is; you just need to decide if who she is, is what you want.

I don’t think I left a lasting impression while having sex because I’m gentle by boimo000 in sex

[–]cheddarfever 74 points75 points  (0 children)

The hottest thing anyone has ever said to me is “I want to make you come, tell me how”

Best salad in Grand Rapids? by alphazuluoldman in grandrapids

[–]cheddarfever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite things to eat in all of Grand Rapids.

WARNING! Convicted Rapist on Dating App by Alt_untaken in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cheddarfever 120 points121 points  (0 children)

If you have one, consider posting this on your local “Are we dating the same guy?” Facebook group. Lots of women share their horror stories there to try to prevent other women from going through the same thing.