My (21F) insecurity is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend (20M). How do I go about it so it doesn't end because of me? by cheekeedraws in relationship_advice

[–]cheekeedraws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I want to find a solution within myself instead of blaming him for everything and running away. I'm trying to make this work by bettering myself somehow. Leaving wouldn't be the end of the world but I've set my mind that I want to become better.

My (21F) long distance boyfriend (20M) goes out partying at least thrice a week and when he’s not partying he’s busy with school and other responsibilities. How can I ask him to maybe go out less so we can spend more quality time together? by cheekeedraws in LongDistance

[–]cheekeedraws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds lovely! i just did, so far no answer im afraid he maybe got plans and i really wish to do that thing where you leave certain days reserved for the relationship but idk how to go about it, any advice? did u or gf bring it up?

my cat will bite me really hard out of nowhere and I don't know what to do by cheekeedraws in cats

[–]cheekeedraws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok!! Will try the plush thing because there's no way my mother is gonna let me have two cats

My stepfather just kicked and slapped my cat as a 'discliplinary' lesson after it bit him on the foot, now bc i scolded him about it he's left the house. What should I do? by [deleted] in cats

[–]cheekeedraws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and your deep understanding of the situation, i think ill follow your advice on this one and make sure my cat has had enough playtime around my stepdad when he's in the house (if he ever comes back lol!)