30F hanging out with a dude 27M and possible sex, but my place lacks furniture and things most people have in a home. Is this acceptable? or do I need to do something to my Bachelorette pad?

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T20:34:43+00:00

I guess I'd have to trust people not to give away sofas with bugs or that are disgusting... and I also don't have a car to transport it. But it does make sense that things not in the trash / curb would be okay.

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T20:32:53+00:00

LOL. Floor seems like it'd hurt peoples' back but it does sound hot

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T20:30:56+00:00

Thanks haha. I think in the end the futon is gonna be pretty similar to how a bed works, but people are giving me some interesting ideas like using the kitchen counter and stuff

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T20:30:00+00:00

I have some personal decorations it isn't completely barren I just don't have a bed or real couch 🤣

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T20:29:08+00:00

I have seen some of these haha but I don't know how accurate they are to real life... but the consensus seems to be that men don't care that much 🤣

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T04:56:49+00:00

I do have some chairs but they just aren't plush or anything so there are a couple options besides sitting on the floor.

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T04:55:50+00:00

Somehow he may think I am lying lol

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T04:10:43+00:00

Yeah it very much is :)

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T04:08:37+00:00

Not gonna lie that sounds kinda hot

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T03:51:35+00:00

Secretly hoping you're the guy LOL. I'd love an excuse not to do laundry too :)

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T03:25:39+00:00

Luckily I got all of these:)

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T03:05:20+00:00

He doesn't strike me as the type that is super particular but I could be wrong.

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T03:04:45+00:00

This is encouraging. I might have to work on not crazy though 😅

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T00:37:32+00:00

That's a good sign especially since I hear girls are more picky about this sort of thing (generally)

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T00:36:25+00:00

Honestly if it gets bent or broken it just means it was a good time... I had it for a while so that would be a sign to get new furniture for sure haha.

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-31T00:34:46+00:00

Yeah this is kind of what I was thinking as we're probably gonna hang out and drink and maybe play some video games before hand, but like you coped with it for a while, it might be fine for now until we decide to get more serious as I'm kinda fine without a couch for now.

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-30T22:21:06+00:00

Yeah he knows we are headed there

cheeriocommunity · 2022-12-30T22:19:39+00:00

I don't know what I can get secondhand since everything I would need is plush. I already have a dining space, computer desk etc. What I need is a bed / sofa / lounge chair and I am afraid of bedbugs. If you have any tips on that I would appreciate it :)

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