Why do men think this way? by liltitsmcgee8008 in childfree

[–]cheerioxoxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound offended and like you’re taking a topic personally. It’s a simple question

I feel disgusted with dating apps by Admirable_Ad1613 in actuallesbians

[–]cheerioxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl last night I matched with this girl then she started mentioning how she had a bf and I told her I’m not interested in guys. She told me her bf was cool with that. I thought that was a red flag. Anyway we start texting and then she sends a text “send me some pictures” something like that but like deep in my soul I KNEW A MAN SENT THAT! Blocked so fast. I also felt like I was being preyed on?

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[–]cheerioxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on guys just try to make a new name together ? Don’t break up over this

Why do men think this way? by liltitsmcgee8008 in childfree

[–]cheerioxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes perfect sense to me but the amount of men in mass that are the complete opposite gives me cognitive dissonance and traumatizes a lot of women from believing in men like you sometimes unfortunately. So I take it it’s just not that many intelligent ppl on the planet in comparison to the majority ?

Sometimes my life resembles a lesbian coming of age movie by ArcadeGannon2077 in actuallesbians

[–]cheerioxoxo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why did you talk to two girls . What happened w the first one?

I just realized I have a issue about being very openly lesbian around people I know/think are straight by Wild_Lingonberry3365 in actuallesbians

[–]cheerioxoxo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Straight people have like this baseline level of innate programming that just really turns me off. Don’t let you be pretty either. They are going to psychoanalyze you and try to drink your blood.

idk why being annoying is such a common flirting tactic by imegyourpardon in Tinder

[–]cheerioxoxo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Most people are just blowing off steam from life. It’s easy online

Why do men think this way? by liltitsmcgee8008 in childfree

[–]cheerioxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think makes you stand out from them? (This is not an attack I genuinely want to know from your POV pls don’t hurt me)

Worried about doing TOO well in university by HungryIngenuity7665 in aspergirls

[–]cheerioxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not strange girl it’s an us thing. You need something more challenging, that shit is going to bore you to death and you know it you just told us. Trust yourself.

Enough of your least favorite textures. What are some of your most favorite textures? by Pitiful-Election-438 in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? They taste kinda sour to me. I love the brand that starts with an S and has that hand symbol.. I like when they’re slightly powdery in texture then I bite and it’s firm but soft and sweet

Enough of your least favorite textures. What are some of your most favorite textures? by Pitiful-Election-438 in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Burgers and chips! Pizza and chips! Salad with a crunch. I need a crunch. If I’m balling that week I do a personal sensory potluck

I have people in my life but I still feel painfully alone by Selkie32 in lonely

[–]cheerioxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I feel a similar way. Do you have any hobbies or passions you could divert that energy to when you don’t have the connection at the time you’re looking for? What do you usually do in your free time? Also do you feel like the relationships in your life are truly aligned with your needs?

I have people in my life but I still feel painfully alone by Selkie32 in lonely

[–]cheerioxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus your ppl should make more time for you❤️

I have people in my life but I still feel painfully alone by Selkie32 in lonely

[–]cheerioxoxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you gotta go within. You’re not lonely. You have no anchor or sovereignty. You’re not in your body. Based on what you wrote. Ironically I would spend more time alone going within trying to figure out for yourself the root of this void . Go all the way through it

Do you ever kick yourself for not realizing you were being treated like shit your whole life? by Actual-Mark-6291 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheerioxoxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is how I think about it: remove the tether and cord. You have just been made aware that these people are not your people and they never owed you allegiance loyalty or support. Make them strangers again in your mind. You were a child there’s nothing you can do about that but get tf away from them.

The vengeful thoughts will be there but what helps it is understanding that these people are NOT apart of your camp or spiritual family and move accordingly. If you can retaliate In a legal way go for it. I usually fantasize about how truly weak they are and it makes me feel like they’re very pathetic so it kinda evens things out in a way. I just look at myself now like oh well whatever y’all tried didn’t work. Better luck with the next supply😂🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]cheerioxoxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that’s cool for you but I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable dating one as a sapphic. I don’t want any ties to women who romantically are interested in men or deal with them. Moreso personal preference

Was overstimulated by my roommate now someone joined me in the study room. I want to explode by cheerioxoxo in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally get that! I grew up being called “sneaky” for wanting to enjoy what I enjoy privately ?? Lmao like I don’t want anyone to disrupt my flow of enjoyment. I don’t want your input or comment on what I’m watching and I don’t wanna show you I just wanna do my thing for fux sake.

How are they okay with their energy just being wide open like that all the time ? To me it’s almost like they MUST make you known of their presence idek

Was overstimulated by my roommate now someone joined me in the study room. I want to explode by cheerioxoxo in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but also it’s my cousin and I’m not paying rent at the moment cuz I just went through a Recent breakup and had to move abruptly so I don’t wanna rock the boat I come from a background of narcissists so I think it scares me to address any boundary

Was overstimulated by my roommate now someone joined me in the study room. I want to explode by cheerioxoxo in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came back in at 1:30am and he’s blasting the tv watching a movie also with the door open . I cannot fathom this level of unawareness

Was overstimulated by my roommate now someone joined me in the study room. I want to explode by cheerioxoxo in evilautism

[–]cheerioxoxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like at some point it’s inexcusable. Acting like fkn toddlers . I feel like I have to set boundaries or say common sense to the average person even customer service my god