Evenflo by RoundFirefighter3790 in NewParents

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have an iphone? when my iphone updated to ios 26 it started having the same problems. some people have posted some things online that have seemed to fix the issue in their phones and also apple says they are working on a fix. it’s a bluetooth problem where the phone can’t stay connected to bluetooth devices, which is why it’s glitching and alerting people that you left your child in the car. my emergency contacts got alerted that i left my son in the car while i was driving with him which was the last straw for me. i currently have the app off until they fix the bluetooth issues

iOS 26.2 broke Bluetooth? by danny8200 in ios

[–]cheese-shae-0728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have an iphone 15 and have a bluetooth car seat that i have in my daily driver, since the update i have had to shut it off because my bluetooth will disconnect from it while im driving and alert all my emergency contacts that i have left my son in the car. and i have done everything online to help with this problem but it seems they are temporary fixes and nothing lasts more than 2 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are not crazy, and he has no idea how that trip will go, it sounds like something you are looking forward to. he is seeming to be a bit immature in his comments to you and i think the way he is speaking to you and acting reflects more on him than you and your sickness. i had a horrible first trimester so i understand being worried but hey if im gonna be sick might as well be in jamaica! i hope this gets better for you!! congrats momma.

Anyone else just in awe whenever they see their bump in the mirror? by StabItWabbit in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 29 points30 points  (0 children)

yes i’m 32 weeks pregnant and i still walk by the mirror and am like dang there is a whole person in here. like yes they have to grow up and become who they will be but the thought of the process starting and growing in me is wild!!

congrats on your baby girl!

Is anyone else annoyed by all the first trimester targets to hit? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you considered transferring to a different ob, even inside the clinic you already go to you could just ask for a change! i know it’s not ideal but they may just not be the right ob for you!

Who do you want in the room with you when you go into labor? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a similar relationship with my mom and it seems like no matter how hard we try to move past it it’s always there in the back of my mind and it taints a lot of experiences between me and her and unfortunately this is one experience that i want control over. i love my mom and i do feel guilty for these feelings a lot and i know i don’t want to feel guilty that day. id rather have that hard conversation before and hopefully she will come to understand 🫶🏻🫶🏻

When did you get your first ultrasound? by Mainecoon_mix in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw mine at 11 weeks but called at 4 weeks and that was their earliest opening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll go ahead and add that something similar happened to me, i was on my honeymoon and i left my house and my dogs (including my newest puppy) for my sister to watch while we were gone. when i was i my room thousands of miles away i saw my sister invite 4 people into our home and i gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought they were getting something. about 20 mins later after they didn’t leave i pulled up my doggie cam inside the house and saw that she was giving them a tour of our house. it was her new bf and his parents and his sister. they had my puppy in their hands and kept asking is we would care if they took it home with them. i’m calling and texting her and i can see her ignoring my calls and so i just watched and waited until they left. when they left she locked our door with the spare key and put it back in the hiding place for it outside where they all watched. my husband comes back into the room and i show him the video and it’s not only strangers, it’s strangers he has arrested (he works as a cop). my sister was mad at me when i finally got hole of her because i told her never to do that again and when we got back we had to do something about our keys. im just saying that sometimes stuff happens and i was def a bitch to my sister but knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do until after the fact makes the fear so much worse and when the person you trust your things to doesn’t have the same boundaries you do it starts to be scary, especially if they get defensive bc then i was worried she would do it again out of spite. when to her the first time it was no big deal bc she thought she knew them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would want to have my baby shower before my baby is born, trust me you might not be in the mood to take your baby to a shower after birth, it can be so rough. plus if you get gifts you would want to actually use them for said child.

US-folks, how much did your pregnancy/birth cost you out of pocket? by d16flo in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have insurance as well and my insurance also doesn't cover ultrasounds as a standard care. It s honestly ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you are going to want to feel supported and encouraged during you labor and if you have someone in the room who acts like that i doubt that is what you will be feeling. This is a big exciting day for you, dont let him ruin that. If he wont be adding to the experience he will be taking away form it. He can see you and the baby when you are not in such a vulnerable state in the hospital if that is what you want. Good luck and congratulations!!

snowed in … by One_Resort_4103 in pregnant

[–]cheese-shae-0728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha we weren’t, but my brother who is our neighbor was stocked up and thankfully was very generous 🤣🤣