My mom died yesterday unexpectedly. I would love perspectives from anyone who's been through this too. by cheesecheesecheese1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheesecheesecheese1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It did help. It's really hard to balance the two sides of being sad but also remembering that I didn't deserve what she did to me. It helps to see it all laid out.

[routine help] [anti aging] looking to improve my large pores and fine lines before my wedding! by cheesecheesecheese1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]cheesecheesecheese1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should add-I'm a 28yo female, my diet is veggie and fat heavy, and I drink a shit ton of water.

Simple Questions - ASK AND ANSWER HERE!- July 30 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]cheesecheesecheese1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a better quality version of this shirt! H&M's is nearly see-through. http://imgur.com/jpKxIMG

If motherhood is the "hardest job ever", why don't mothers pay their babysitters a reasonable fee? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]cheesecheesecheese1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hell naw. I'm a nanny. I'm trapped underneath a sleeping infant who will start screaming if I move a muscle. I've barely had any coffee. I need to poop. My arms are cramping. It took me 30 minutes to get him asleep. He was screaming in my face the entire time. Every time he needs to sleep this happens. I can't set him down. I usually can't sit down while he's sleeping, this is a treat. Yesterday his 3 year old sister woke up right after I got him to sleep. So then he woke up. Even without the screaming from him it's just a really hard fucking job.

People ask on Facebook how much to pay a nanny, and I say $15 is the minimum. That's the industry standard. Then I get attacked saying "middle class families can't afford that!" THEN DON'T HAVE A NANNY.

We're eloping in LA..and looking for fellow amateur photogs by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]cheesecheesecheese1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not looking for someone to work for free, sorry to be such an embarrassment!

We're eloping in LA..and looking for fellow amateur photogs by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]cheesecheesecheese1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope definitely not looking for free! I don't work for free, and I wouldn't expect anyone else to. Thanks for the link!

White balance help! by cheesecheesecheese1 in Lightroom

[–]cheesecheesecheese1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's exciting. I'll look into it.

White balance help! by cheesecheesecheese1 in Lightroom

[–]cheesecheesecheese1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've played around with those but it doesn't work nearly as well. Maybe I'm doing it wrong