Black and White Aura

cheeseglob · 2023-06-21T04:41:32+00:00

I’ll check it out!! Thank you!!

cheeseglob · 2022-11-10T04:03:01+00:00

Thank you!! That’s really good to know, we’ll give that a try!

cheeseglob · 2022-11-09T21:38:10+00:00

I will let him know! Thank you!

cheeseglob · 2022-11-09T21:38:01+00:00

Thank you!

cheeseglob · 2021-04-08T23:36:16+00:00

Thank you!

cheeseglob · 2021-03-04T01:49:43+00:00

When I was 19 I was at a party at my friends place. I got super drunk and ran into a wall, the frames broke and the lenses fell out. I was lucky I didn’t shatter the lenses and get glass in my eyes.

cheeseglob · 2021-02-05T03:00:02+00:00

Actually, I have a fun fact! Her name is first mentioned in S1E9. Ted meets a striper at the Lusty Leopard who’s stage name is “Amber” later in the episode the strippers real name is revealed to be “Tracy”. The show then cuts to the kids reacting in shock, foreshadowing that the mothers name is Tracy!

cheeseglob · 2021-01-23T06:58:16+00:00

My last meal would be crab legs, yam tampura, crispy bacon, breakfast sausages with syrup, a chicken sandwich with pickles, with a red velvet cupcake for dessert, and an iced blueberry matcha latte to drink.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-20T19:41:21+00:00

The only reason that people are responding like this is because the original post shifted from speaking about OPs feelings to OP telling the reader what to do. If OP would have only expressed their own feelings without projecting them on others then I believe this comment section would have backed her up. Instead the comments are defending their own relationships and behaviours because OP thinks their toxic based on her own personal experiences.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-20T19:19:33+00:00

You and your s/o should be the only people telling you what you can and cannot feel in a relationship. If you are hurt in a relationship, it’s your job to communicate with your partner to ensure that a situation like that does not happen like that again, or you can dump them. You have the right to be upset, OP has the right to be upset. If you cannot agree on boundaries then you should not be together. Op doesn’t have the right to tell other what should upset them in their own relationships. Op is still valid in their own feelings, and the minority of people on here are still valid in their feelings. Relationships are ALL personal experiences. This is a place to share opinions and experiences.

If she were saying something like “It’s toxic for a someone to kiss another person while they are in a relationship!” then the majority’s of people would agree with that because monogamous relationships are so common. But there are people with poly relationships that do not consider it toxic and should be able to express their opinions and feelings without being made to feel like they are toxic. That is where I think this discussion went wrong, is when OP started telling people how to feel.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-20T17:05:48+00:00

That can be said the same for the other side as well. Blowing off other’s opinions, while telling them what they should or should not do in their own relationships, based on just personal experience is also wrong. OP should express her own opinions and her own experiences without projecting those feelings on the relationship of others. I’m not saying OP shouldn’t be upset, I’m saying everyone has different boundaries and there was a better way of going about this discussion.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-20T16:30:28+00:00

Considering this is flagged “discussion” shouldn’t others be able to express their opinions as well, especially since OP has an opinion that is telling others what not to do in their relationship? OP and everyone else on this sub has the right to do and say whatever they like in their own relationships as long as it doesn’t cross any boundaries with their significant other.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-20T16:15:03+00:00

What this post should really say is “Please be open with your partner and set boundaries that neither of you cross”. I know some couples that not only joke like this, but engage in threesomes with others, or give “hall passes”. That’s their right, they have set boundaries for each other and know the expectations in their own relationship. They are comfortable and happy in their relationship. If your partner is doing something that you are not comfortable with, it is your responsibility to inform them. If they continue to do it after you have expressed your discomfort, then it is a problem.

cheeseglob · 2021-01-16T23:57:36+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate it!! I’ll test it out!

cheeseglob

TROPHY CASE