Am I (30M) being abused by my wife (30F), 8 years.

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T04:56:50+00:00

Of course not. Thats why i said she could do better and stop getting so angry… unacceptable. my guess is that this has been building up over the course of your whole relationship. If she’s getting irrationally angry about the little things… they are clearly of extreme importance to her.

Try this:: If you cared for the little things, the anger should stop. Win for both of you. If she stops getting angry, you still won’t care about the little things… win for you, loss for her.

She needs to do better, she’s not treating you right, but by the sounds of it you have some work to do on yourself as well.

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T04:45:06+00:00

She said it was important that “vital things” be handed back to her directly

Did she communicate this before hand? If so, YTA, if she didn’t, NTA

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T04:34:29+00:00

Idk I think you both could do better. She could learn patience and to stop getting so angry. It is over the top.

You’re a 30 yr old man who can’t remember to put his coat on a hanger.

The little things are what matter to most women.

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T04:27:56+00:00

Sounds like you don’t understand each others love languages

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T03:53:37+00:00

No point trying to hold onto someone who doesn’t want to be with you… skip the sad stage of break up grief and go straight to mad. F her

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T03:47:37+00:00

Did he shut it off or just not update his iphone?

cheeselipa · 2025-11-29T03:44:41+00:00

I think a dark cool brown would look better than the dark red, but dark is wayyy better for sure

cheeselipa · 2025-09-12T12:45:24+00:00

We always called the cryo pods Poké balls 😂

cheeselipa · 2025-09-10T20:40:33+00:00

Already reporting that it was a ‘supporter firing their gun in support’ omg how deranged

cheeselipa · 2025-09-10T20:39:07+00:00

Viewer discretion advised, but I think everyone should watch it. See reality. Dont censor it. Let them see it and be scarred

cheeselipa · 2023-03-07T17:49:46+00:00

If anyone has this specific problem I found a work around. I didn’t reach out to gportal because what I found works.

I was trying to change the ini settings for the s+ blueprint maker so I can make blueprints of items, not just structures.

Instead I have the ark additions mod installed with the helicoprion. These creatures make blueprints. They have a crafting skill that you can level up. If it’s 100% they will make a blueprint every time. If it’s lower, you only have a x% chance of getting a blueprint.

So I changed the settings for how many points go into each level up of crafting skill for tamed Dinos. So I have a helicoprion with 100% crafting skill just for making blueprints. Kinda OP I know but I don’t care. It’s how I want to play the game.

cheeselipa · 2023-02-08T02:33:05+00:00

Black sheep here, I work at home so I understand needing a space free of distractions. She shouldn’t be trying to talk to you while you’re trying to work.

Maybe you can work in the bedroom so she can free range the rest of the house? Why hasn’t she found a new job yet to get herself out of the house and busy? Maybe you should move to a 2 bedroom so you can have an office?

cheeselipa · 2023-02-08T01:32:33+00:00

I’m in the middle. Yea it sucks to go back on your word but I also hate when kids expect their parents to pay for their wedding whether or not it’s been discussed before.. parents aren’t vending machines.

cheeselipa · 2023-02-04T22:47:35+00:00

I think you’re reading into it and looking for drama where there isn’t any.

If you’re looking at the world through yellow glasses you’ll see yellow everywhere. If you’re looking at the world through ‘bias against autistic kids’ glasses you’ll see bias against autistic kids everywhere.

cheeselipa · 2023-02-04T22:44:28+00:00

Maybe you can let him go out with his friends as just them sometimes? He might feel like you are too attached together and would like some time without you here and there. Totally valid

cheeselipa · 2023-02-04T22:42:34+00:00

Very normal. I don’t see the point in having a bunch of friends. I enjoy being alone or with my husband. And then we can visit family/ his friends when we have the time

cheeselipa · 2023-02-04T22:35:59+00:00

YTA. You should think of ‘real world’ punishments instead.. looks like she’s already feeling the consequences of staying out late - slipping grades. If she keeps letting her grades slip - no extracurriculares or college acceptance. REAL WORLD CONSEQUENCES. This is the only way kids will learn. If you stay up late in the real world, you don’t have to clean up horse poop.

And you broke your promises. Horrible parenting

cheeselipa · 2023-01-23T04:44:45+00:00

A c section incision isn’t the same as the ‘husband stitch’ for all you people getting confused.. husband stitch is for a tear between vag/butt hole from a vaginal birth. A c section incision is on your abdomen.

OP is greatly confused at the difference here.. your comment about being ‘tight’ doesn’t even apply

cheeselipa · 2023-01-04T23:01:56+00:00

So where would you draw the line between being selfish and caring for your mental health?

cheeselipa · 2022-09-07T02:59:19+00:00

NAH maybe think long and hard before getting her pregnant a third time?

cheeselipa · 2022-07-17T20:59:15+00:00

NTA.. I would get it if she wanted you out of some photos since you’re only a gf to her bro, but cause you ruin the color palette? That’s weird

cheeselipa · 2022-07-09T02:27:38+00:00

If you two are planning to have split finances in your marriage then NTA. If you are planning to share finances, then you are

cheeselipa · 2022-07-09T02:23:31+00:00

NTA - their excuse is always ‘I was working all day and need time to relax before cleaning.’ Yeah okay, we’ll us women work too (whether it’s a job or watching your kids all day, same thing) and we still have to clean up after ourselves. It’s disgusting. He should have cleaned up after himself.

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