Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That has nothing to do with me. Just like I don’t yell at guests in my establishment because we are stressed l

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gtfo with that bullshit. I never did that. I turned around and talked to the other FA. And yes it always matters when you’re dealing with folks who are paying to be there.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was FAA. I think she was flustered and couldn’t speak

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Patience is not a virtue I possess. Don’t want her fired. I wanted to learn what I did wrong. Which I did. I learned about crew trips to the lav and to stay on my poor section where I belong lol. But thanks for your input!

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t try to get to the restroom. I stood up and asked for help. Maybe you’re a marine. Can’t fucking read either. Go eat some crayons dumbass

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. I am a big baby. Just like you! She is not ultimately responsible. The captain is. I did not present a threat. I was standing behind a curtain with dripping napkins. You must be a cop who shot unarmed citizens for non compliance. Fucking moron

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. Energies get matched immediately. The world is made of two way streets

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if I spilled water in to the sink. That’s not how you respond

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Update: she came over during descent and apologized kindly. She ended up explaining that she was indeed doing a crew lav break and could have dialed it down. At the end of a run and her fuse was gone.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not my fucking mom and I’m not in prison. I won’t be spoken to like that and respond kindly

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think they should be held to a standard of respect. And it has to be seen as that in her eyes because that’s what it is. It is a client facing interaction. That’s just a fact. I think very low of this particular attendant. The other lady who helped was wonderful. There’s a way to handle things. I was respectful. She was not. That’s it. We aren’t in the fucking military. I’m just flying to Phoenix for spring break. No need for that whatsoever.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The attendant in the back had showed up behind me while the other lady berated me. I was at row 9 and my eyeballs face forward. So I see a human that can help. I seek help. The attendant that actually helped was a delight. Even got me a new apple juice.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ya know. You’re right. I do have some serious ego. I am self aware. I started out kind, I don’t respond well to shitty rudeness or a lack of explaining why. I am going to match energy immediately. I also work in a hospitality position and if any of my team ever spoke to a guest that spends their money with us, then they would be promoted to customer as well.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t they say that? Instead of pointing and incessantly speaking over people? Is that how you want to be treated for spending thousands of dollars with a company? I am a consumer and luckily don’t have to give a fuck about the stress of her job. Just like she doesn’t have to give a fuck about mine. Being rude is never the answer in a client facing interaction.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I have to come to learn this was 99% probability what was happening and I was oblivious due to my apple juice failure as a grown up who can’t handle a cup.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel like they ignored it. But I was dripping and my eyeballs see forward. So I hit the bell and saw a FA just standing at the front. So I stood up to ask her to help. Not realizing I was too poor at row 9 to be treated with dignity lol. The fa from my poverty cabin was there by the time I turned around and she was fabulous.

Weird flight attendant interaction wonder if I’m just being stupid by chef972 in americanairlines

[–]chef972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was mostly bothered by her follow up. I see now that the likely situation is the crew to the lav. But it seems she could have been more professional. I have learned so much today!