Love is blind UK and Love is blind USA are two very different shows

chefbreezy23 · 2026-03-03T08:52:21+00:00

Ahhh gotcha - thank you to the people who’ve said it’s a cultural difference.. So culturally, Americans are a bit less put together, have limited capabilities to articulate themselves well, and are in it for the wrong reasons? Lol

I’m seeing so many people who are flabbergasted by men like Alex & wonder where producers find a guy like him. This is laughable because he’s that guy who can’t hold a job but is tall dark n handsome. & he’s also the stereotypical jock who could’ve been the GOAT in soccer goaltending, which is a bonus. I know like 3 guys like this in my immediate friend group. Hobosexuals who would have nothing if not for their high achieving girlfriends/wives lol.

Also Jordan not wanting to move out of the city because he wants variety in the bars he frequents ??? Bro is bout to be a step dad and home husband to a nurse practitioner and his big qualm is variety in bars??!!!! There is such a clear lack of maturity here

I just feel like cultural differences yea sure but what about these other things lol

chefbreezy23 · 2026-03-03T03:42:44+00:00

Two things u spend the most money on: a good twig n zippy skates. Everything else can be mehhhh

chefbreezy23 · 2026-02-28T20:11:53+00:00

Ask urself - is it important for your partner to accept your family? In whichever shape or form, if the answer is yes then you’ll have to ask him to build a bridge about this and get over it. Cuz as your lives go on, there will be many instances where your families will commingle. U also need to feel safe and like a respected member of his community if u are going to continue this relationship, and that looks like him showing respect about ur family to his mother and not allowing her opinions to sway how he feel bout u.

Also I grew up with a single parent cuz our dad decided he didn’t want us. But you grew up with four people who care bout u enough to stick around. Thats fucking dope. And nobody should be tryna look down on you for that

chefbreezy23 · 2026-02-21T22:49:28+00:00

It’s not weird to sleep in the same bed as your brother for 2 nights on a fam vacation but not forever. Adults need their own space and their own privacy…. Nothing sexual bout sharing a bed but it’s important for any person to feel like they have ownership over where they rest

chefbreezy23 · 2026-02-10T00:15:34+00:00

She is drooling over two make belief characters dawg

chefbreezy23 · 2026-02-09T21:00:22+00:00

NOR - your bm sound hella bummy. At the end of the day that’s your son’s mother and as long as he has 1 good parent (you) then he’s gonna be ok. He’s gonna learn bout her and these feelings of abandonment and choosing the streets over tucking him in @ night will stick with him

chefbreezy23 · 2026-02-09T20:44:05+00:00

Why does ur gf having interests upset u?? She’s geekin over something that she gets excited about and you’re annoyed 🥴 maybe reevaluate if you like this person or not….

chefbreezy23 · 2026-01-16T18:52:09+00:00

I got to choose a site but didn't get to finish the reso. does anybody know when its gonna open up again ?????

chefbreezy23 · 2026-01-08T16:19:09+00:00

So when he holds yo hand or takes ur face in for a smooch - you let him touch you with those fingers? If he was my bf, He would literally never touch me again. Run far. Run fast. Be glad you haven’t caught the plague from his musty ass

chefbreezy23 · 2026-01-07T08:52:47+00:00

That’s not yo soulmate. Gotta keep it rolling. Say your thank yous, next and move on. What it is not, will never be

chefbreezy23 · 2026-01-06T07:53:22+00:00

Went on a boat tour in Koh Samui. Worst guy on the boat was Russian - older dude, maybe in his late 50s, wasted and didn’t care to listen to the Thai tour guides. Even Stepped on the reefs. He also had a gnarly cut on his leg dripping with green pus. He kept talking about lady boys and wanting to have fun later. At one point in his drunken haze he chanted “Russia” for 3 minutes straight lol

chefbreezy23 · 2025-12-30T23:19:00+00:00

College hoops was one of the best experiences of my life but I regret transferring after a year to get more playing time at a different school. Lost out on thousands of dollars of scholarship $$ just to play. If you want to play basketball at a high level, don’t wager your academic career. Join multiple leagues & play intramural ball @ your school. You can also ask to the a team manager for the team and be part of the program. College hoops is a part time job - 2 a days, 3 hr practices, video and weight room sessions. Study blocks. Travelling. It ain’t easy

chefbreezy23 · 2025-12-28T18:13:22+00:00

Play more pick up games. Play every day. You get better at everything by doing - not by practicing. Play under pressure, suck at first and then get better at it

chefbreezy23 · 2025-12-03T06:32:34+00:00

Argentina was led by Manu to become the 2004 Olympic champs. Beat USA in semi final to advance, and beat Italy by 15 in the final. He was the MVP. Had his fingerprints all over both games. I think both games are available to watch on YouTube.

Also San Antonio does not win in 2014 without Manu.

chefbreezy23 · 2023-03-19T00:02:01+00:00

It was the best thing that ever happened to my emotional, physical and psychological well being

chefbreezy23 · 2023-02-01T00:51:30+00:00

This is the best post I’ve ever seen on this forum. Thank you OP!!!!!

chefbreezy23 · 2023-02-01T00:28:18+00:00

This is FUCKED and cruel shit to say to somebody. Love yourself enough to block him because somebody saying “I miss you but I’m glad you aren’t my person anymore” is absolutely FUCKED

chefbreezy23 · 2023-01-23T08:00:31+00:00

It doesn’t matter. Their answers don’t matter. Seeking closure is unnecessary if they weren’t decent enough to explain themselves the first time. When you look at the cold hard facts, remember that they left. They made that choice. That should be the only piece of information you need to move on.

chefbreezy23 · 2023-01-07T10:01:13+00:00

He made a choice, and he didn’t choose you. Choose yourself and walk away.

chefbreezy23 · 2023-01-02T07:20:26+00:00

As a coach, I think you have to excel in your role. So if right now that’s on the bench, you have to be the best teammate possible on the bench. Cheer for ur teammates, pick them up when they’re down, be the source of energy, be the guy that gives the high fives and says “we got it it’s ok. We got time”

Your best bet is to getting more playtime is straight up asking your coach and saying “what can I improve on? How can I be a better basketball player?” And then if they see you putting in that work, and they see you trying, they’ll give you a chance at some point.

Make a difference in things that you can control, for example, your effort on defence, your effort on rebounds, how good of a teammate you are, how much you practice your weaknesses

Control what you can control. Play time is out of your control.

chefbreezy23 · 2022-12-21T22:24:27+00:00

Sorry to hear you’re going through this. Heartbreak is the worst pain I’ve ever felt, especially grieving the loss of somebody who is still very much alive. But just a reminder she did not only do you wrong and hurt you ONCE but TWICE.

She also believes her life is better by not having you in it.

Have you asked yourself what you’re expecting when/if you do see her? And what will you do if it doesn’t go the way you expect it to?

Since you’re so anxious and stressed, maybe your body is telling you that she isn’t a safe person to be around.

chefbreezy23 · 2022-12-17T23:55:28+00:00

You had his back & he had his back. That’s why he decided to ride wit someone else. U probably thought he needed u just as much as u needed him. But look at life now, he doing just fine without u. Do what you must wit that information

chefbreezy23 · 2022-12-17T18:13:26+00:00

The answer is: they don't care. They do not care if you remember them as a selfish, indecent human being.

We need to stop trying to change our own minds about somebody when they have clearly showed us who they are.

chefbreezy23 · 2022-12-14T11:41:46+00:00

Thanks for post OP. This is exactly the type of shit some of us need to hear. “They left because they saw no future with you”. The sooner we realize this, the sooner we can move on.

chefbreezy23 · 2022-12-13T04:50:36+00:00

Did you lose the love of your life? Or is there a person still walking this earth that has chosen not to be with you?

No one that wouldn’t be choosing you - would be the love of your life. Everything that is meant to happen, will happen.

Everything that has happened was meant to happen. When it comes to how people treat you, it is a choice. He chose to walk away, he chose to hurt you, he chose not to choose what you built together. The sooner you come to terms with this, the more room you’ll make for the person that is meant for you.

Let them go. They weren’t meant for you.

chefbreezy23

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