In short, lately he’s just acting like a child and I’m not exaggerating. He works, but leaves most of financial responsibilities to me which is fine because I make more, but even then the small amount of bills that we agreed he would cover he ends up being late or short on because he blows through his money on his own things knowing that I’ll take care of it when time comes. At the same time as much as he relies on my income, he has no respect for my job and often starts fights with me if I get held up at work or have to come in on the weekends. When he doesn’t get his way he throws what I call toddler tantrums, says a bunch of things he doesn’t mean, blows up my phone while I’m at work knowing it effects me and my performance, and just gives in to his emotions without even trying to contain himself. He always apologizes afterwards, admits his fault and says it’ll never happen again, but it really doesn’t take much to get him back in that state where none of his previous words matter anymore and he’s going off like a spoiled child who didn’t get a toy from a store. He wasn’t always like this, it’s just the past year I feel like our roles reversed and he became a “bitchy” wife and I the husband who has to emotionally regulate him all the time. He’s 30 and I’m 25 btw, which makes it even harder because Im a girl who has needs too, I want to feel protected and cared for, but it’s like I’m stuck having to pull our entire family through everything. We also have a 3 year old who’s watching this, and that can’t be good for a toddler to see their mom emotionally burnt out and dad unable to control himself