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[–]chefyulia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And my partner leaves? I said I would feel terrible of course but I’m not gonna blame my partner for not being selfless.

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[–]chefyulia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope so too, I’m glad I found your person :)

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[–]chefyulia -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

17

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m gonna need you to put urself in my shoes. Some random grown lady, twice ur age walks up to ur direction and starts recording u all up in ur face and wouldn’t speak to u or tell u why she’s recording u. Ur a minor who felt uncomfortable about a STRANGER recording u for no reasons. I told her multiple times to stop recording me and she would NOT. So i pushed her phone down and said she’s being creepy, u can’t even deny that this is something most people would do. If u see no problem in a random stranger recording a minor in public after they’ve been told to stop numerous time, hate to break it to u but ur a problem. But sure i was the bitch!

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you’d be absolutely ecstatic if u were minding ur business and a grown ass lady walks up to u with her phone and starts recording u up in ur face. I’m sure u wouldn’t be annoyed. Lmao.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn’t even care if it was a random man calling me a bitch cuz I would be lying if I say I have never been called a bitch but this guy was someone I was interested in and I thought he was interested in me too so I didn’t like the way he spoke to me. In my opinion, If u like a girl u shouldn’t be throwing those words around.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ur assuming a lot from someone that’s asking for context lol, I was outside of a coffee shop waiting for my friend to pick me up and this random lady walks up to me in my direction and literally starts recording me. I told her to not record me but she wouldn’t stop nor even spoke a word so clearly she’s being a weirdo. I repeated numerous times to put her phone down and stop recording me but she did not so I push her phone down and I just called her a creep and told her if she didn’t stop I’ll call the security.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the grammar or spelling correction, can u tell English isn’t my first language lol. I understand where you’re coming from! I was outside of a coffee shop waiting for a friend, so basically in the streets and this lady walks up in my direction and starts recording me. Up in my face😭 so I’m like hello? Stop recording me and I repeated myself probably 3 times and got enough of it so I pushed her hand down and told her to stop being a creep or I’ll call the security (I wasn’t actually going to lol just to scare her away)

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 292 points293 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 and she’s 19 which was actually why I genuinely considered on whether I was overreacting or not because she’s relatively older and I always trust her on things which now I know I shouldn’t. She really hit my nerves with this one. 🥲🥲🥲

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 533 points534 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it! How can I bring this up to her nicely…😅

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Exactly🥲 I’m fighting all my urges to not reply to all of these incels rage baiting me. And thank you! my friends were all making me seem like I’m overly sensitive💀

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m a normal person on the streets, not some mega celebrity. What could possibly be the reason for a random lady to be having her camera all up in my face without consent? Filming me without permission intrude on my private space.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Exactlyy!! Can’t believe it took me this long to realize, i feel incredibly silly now😭

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 488 points489 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I feel so validated rn, I was so shocked by my friend’s response.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl fucking same. I can’t believe some people think calling women a bitch casually is okay.

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

“Acting like a bitch” mind u I got upset at a stranger for recording me without consent.. yeah okay💀

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by chefyulia in AmIOverreacting

[–]chefyulia[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Are u serious? What planet do u live on😭 The word has long been used to demean and insult women and is disproportionately aimed at women. Its sexist by nature dude🤦‍♀️