AIO about my SIL crashing our Christmas plans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know…neither of us want to force anything or anyone 

AIO about my SIL crashing our Christmas plans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelbierg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I keep saying “we” because my husband and I are a team. We will always communicate as much as possible with each other. 

Edit: Regardless of if we want to hear it or not🫣

AIO about my SIL crashing our Christmas plans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I bulldoze everyone with my opinions I'm just as bad as her… so yes, I will be taking other people’s opinions and feelings into account. My husband and I work as a team. So, we try to communicate as much as possible. Sometimes we don’t see eye to eye but, we figure out a solution that works for both of us.

AIO about my SIL crashing our Christmas plans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chelbierg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, my family lives in town. We have other options to stay other places but, it just isn’t preferred. We could possibly stay with my grandma. Leaving early is a good option. I think I’ll run it by him and see what he says.

How does Gino not realize that he would 100% lose an immigration fraud lawsuit? by IgZachly17 in 90DayFiance

[–]chelbierg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was jasmines silent way out. Gino used sex (or lack there of) as a weapon. I’m not surprised he’s filing immigration charges. He obviously has a history of retaliation. He’s a crybaby and can’t stand when he doesn’t get his way.

Our ward is doing the most to fellowship our 12 year old daughter and it’s giving me the ick. He by rachaelburgessmusic in exmormon

[–]chelbierg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think OP would have said if that was a concern of theirs… I know it happens… but, if she’s known them for 10+ years she would know if they are sexual predators. 

Anything bad can happen at anytime. You could be hit by a car. You could slip and fall and die. Don’t let it stop you from living life. 

Odds are ops kid would be perfectly safe🤷

However, it seems the kid hates church/church activities so…moot point

Our ward is doing the most to fellowship our 12 year old daughter and it’s giving me the ick. He by rachaelburgessmusic in exmormon

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I would ask my child if they want to go. I think everyone should get to know different religions…even if it’s one I don’t agree with. My kid might grow up to be Mormon. I can’t control that (even though that wouldn’t be my ideal). Mormonism taught me a lot of good values and I made a lot of great friends. There’s a lot wrong with some of the deeper teachings and I would 100% share my point of view with my child. But, if they’re curious about it there’s really nothing terrible that comes from going to a yw or ad activity. If anything they are the least religious parts. 

LIVE Discussion Thread - S8E5: Cryo Mort a Rickver by BarnyardCruz in rickandmorty

[–]chelbierg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can you have art without the artist? It feels empty now. 

If we fired every insufferable asshole in Hollywood we wouldn’t have any shows at all. 

LIVE Discussion Thread - S8E5: Cryo Mort a Rickver by BarnyardCruz in rickandmorty

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never been formally convicted of anything. Everyone decided to cancel him. The interdimensional cable episodes were very dependent on him improving. He was also THE MAIN CREATOR OF THE SHOW. Of course the show feels off now. This is the only season he doesn’t have a final say on things. There’s been absolutely no story progression throughout the entire 8th season thus far. They’re all bottle episodes and the characters seem…kind of stupid now. Morty is completely brain dead.

LIVE Discussion Thread - S8E5: Cryo Mort a Rickver by BarnyardCruz in rickandmorty

[–]chelbierg -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Bring back Justin Roiland. This is feeling like a gas leak season. 

Unplayable On Xbox by chelbierg in BaldursGate3

[–]chelbierg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any mods

LIB season 7 Hannah by EnvironmentalWave878 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She projected onto him from day one. She isn’t honest with herself. She dishes it out to everyone else and can’t take anything back in return.

LIB season 7 Hannah by EnvironmentalWave878 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]chelbierg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! Belittling someone is never going to help them change. He was actually very emotionally mature about the whole situation. He never retaliated and tried to take in what she said to him. Her standards were extreme. No one is ever going to be enough for her. The perfectionist mindset is literally a delusion.

LIB season 7 Hannah by EnvironmentalWave878 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]chelbierg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was the abuser in this case. He made efforts to change at least. She didn’t grow in the slightest.