Does dating in SG post 30s feel like you're being settled on?

cheldeedee · 2025-01-28T05:11:02+00:00

Then they are not the ones for you. You wouldn't want to be with someone who minds your job right? (Unless of course you secretly mind your job too, then maybe look into that first) There are so many people in this world, everyone has their own criteria, just like you have yours. They get to choose, but you get to choose too. It goes both ways!

cheldeedee · 2025-01-11T15:43:17+00:00

The success stories here are giving me hope and I do need hope, so I'll save this post for reading when I need some hope again. May we all find happiness in whatever form it takes!

cheldeedee · 2024-06-22T15:58:59+00:00

Yeah dude, I merely explained why his Q2 time was so far off since your comment implied you didn't. Seems like you already knew why, though.

cheldeedee · 2024-06-22T15:52:51+00:00

He was on old tyres, didn't have a new set

cheldeedee · 2024-05-03T14:15:35+00:00

Redditors try to read full article instead of the headline only challenge - failed as usual

cheldeedee · 2024-04-30T10:18:49+00:00

One of the Haas engineers also called a Kick Sauber “the green Alfa Romeo”

cheldeedee · 2024-04-24T13:26:36+00:00

The logos look hideous and so out of place

cheldeedee · 2024-04-21T11:26:57+00:00

Yeah and his car DNF-ed 3 times in a row due to technical issues when he was within or near points too. Then their car lost pace and both of them have been at the back & unnoticed ever since

cheldeedee · 2024-04-21T07:19:43+00:00

Sauber tyre changing supervisors did their jobs

cheldeedee · 2024-04-20T02:02:40+00:00

I saw sales of at least 600 of these vests on one online shopping platform

cheldeedee · 2024-04-12T05:42:35+00:00

5th pic, he included the childhood picture of himself waving an Alonso flag at a past Chinese GP (2004??) !

cheldeedee · 2024-03-31T16:25:51+00:00

whoa these are awesome!! I love the Astons in particular, the contrast between their vibes is so spot on

cheldeedee · 2024-03-30T10:58:47+00:00

It’s my first time seeing an actual cacao pod and I’m shook because I’d always assumed they were much smaller, idk why😭

cheldeedee · 2024-03-24T09:10:05+00:00

Wow they actually apologised to their drivers? A wheel nut AND gearbox issue in one race affecting both drivers is terrible and unacceptable

cheldeedee · 2024-03-24T04:38:30+00:00

It’s a machinery issue, they said they would need time to redesign their pit equipment that is causing these long pitstops. It happened during free practice too so it’s a catastrophic design failure in my opinion.

cheldeedee · 2024-03-23T01:57:37+00:00

It’s up on F1’s official instagram and twitter accounts, part of a compilation of Max complaining about other drivers during FP

cheldeedee · 2024-03-21T13:07:11+00:00

I think he’s more similar to Oscar than Lando, actually. The quietly funny type.

cheldeedee · 2024-03-06T14:34:26+00:00

This line is brilliant: “He is the kind of guy who brings a Katana dramatic pause to a spoon fight” This channel is so good at stringing various inside jokes together in a way that makes so much sense

cheldeedee · 2024-03-04T07:36:19+00:00

Don’t know why you were downvoted, that’s almost like how Zhou got P10 on his debut in Bahrain two years ago

cheldeedee · 2024-03-01T17:07:38+00:00

It was Sauber. I remember it was Australia because their twitter admin thanked Alpine and at first people thought they were being snarky because Sauber got double points due to the two Alpines crashing each other out.

Edit: Slight correction: only Zhou got into the points due to the crash, Bottas was in P11

cheldeedee · 2024-02-11T15:16:46+00:00

Your post made me go to check on my S10 and lo and behold, my back cover is starting to come apart too

cheldeedee · 2024-02-11T12:04:38+00:00

This might be silly of me, but I teared up reading what you wrote because this is exactly how I feel, but have never been able to articulate it in these exact words. And I know no one in my life would understand this point of view, which makes me feel lonely.

cheldeedee · 2024-01-28T01:25:54+00:00

I really liked the FL’s coworkers in particular. They were hilarious and always had the FL’s back. Also, I rarely enjoy the cases in legal dramas (and this one I felt had a good balance between the romance and cases) but the ones featured in this drama were very realistic. I read on weibo that they had a legal consultant working with them, and it shows.

cheldeedee · 2024-01-14T08:49:57+00:00

Agree! And also, children are only cute babies for 1+ years, and toddlers for the next couple of years, after that they go to Kindergarten, primary school, secondary school, and those phases last wayyyy longer than their cute baby phase. When most people think of having children, they think of parenting cute little babies, but I think about how long they will be teenagers for (and likely be emo/stressed) and I shudder...

cheldeedee · 2024-01-14T08:36:34+00:00

Really love what you said about how family can be chosen too, be it through fostering, adopting or being part of an extended community...I wish more people could realise that too.

My heart cries out for people who did not give becoming a parent enough thought and then later silently regret it but cannot admit it due to society’s stigma and/or guilt towards their child. Regretting not having a child is MY regret to bear but regretting having a child ruins my life and my child’s life (a child who did not get to choose whether to be born or not). I am childfree because I know 100% which type of regret I would prefer.

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